My DD is almost 5 months old. She was having problems with her day naps since she was two months old. Until a couple of weeks it was difficult to make her nap, but at least once she fell asleep she would nap for at least an hour and a half. Since the past couple of weeks, she wouldn't nap for more than 45 mins.
As she gets tired, she'll try to do anything to avoid going to sleep. As soon as I check her diaper as part of the winddown routine, she would either fuss or try to manipulate me into playing with her (by using her most charming smiles) depending on her tiredness level.. from my part I ignore these smiles and after the diaper check I hold her for a couple of minutes with her head by my neck and tapping on her back for a couple of minutes.
She usually wouldn't cry as soon as I lay her in bed on her back, but would try to get more of my attention. She would start protesting after a few minutes, so instead of going back in, I immediately turn her on her belly and as she fusses (pretty much immediately) tap on her back (for about 10-15 minutes) until either she is relaxed and ready to fall asleep or she's already sleeping. BTW, she used to suck on her fingers after a few minutes of tapping on her back, but she no longer does it anymore. It seems like she's expecting me to tap on her back.
Now that she's waking up after only 45 minutes I try to tap on her back to get her to sleep longer, but it's too late once she's up. I should probably time it and start tapping as soon as she starts waking.
She's definitely about to teeth, could this be part of her napping issues?
Her routine is as follows:
bedtime: 6:45PM
WakeUp: 6:45AM
Usually wakes up once for a feeding at different times.
Eating every 4 hours
First nap around 9:00AM
The rest of the day depends on how much sleep she's getting in the first nap, but we're targeting at a 4 hours EASY.
Yesterday she napped for a total of 2 hours and couldn't fall asleep until 7:30PM and woke up at 6:45AM. I'm realy worried about her not getting enough sleep.
Will it ever get better? I've been using pat/shush for over two months now.
Any suggestions are highly appreciated,
Thanks,
Tuty