Not sure if this should be here or in the nightwaking bit
My friend has had no routine for her DS (7.5 month old) and did have some problems in the past, but now the little blighter's sleeping from 7.30pm to 6am without a peep!!
my DD has been on EASY since birth and has never slept longer than 7 hours from bedtime!! it drives me mad!! i'm the one who's done hours of sleep training, sitting on the floor in a heap beside her cot holding her legs down, pat shushing waking to sleep and all that jazz!! she didn't do a thing!!
to be fair to my lo she was less than 6lbs when she was born and we had some problems with B/F in the early weeks so I knew that night feeds would be a long term thing til we got her bit more beefy. she's only about 17lbs now (at 7 months) and her little buddy is a good 5lbs heavier!
last night we tried to go cold turkey in the DF and she woke up at 1am and fed from both boobs. basically it seems she can't go more than 7 hours in the night as previously when she was getting a DF at about 10pm she'd sleep until 5am at the latest
i've tried to up her calorie intake during the day but she's at that stage where she gets so easily distracted so she doesn't feed well. she's on 3 solid meals a day and i even tried to cut them back a bit in the hope she's take more milk, but she's still not that interested!
is there anything i can do? i'm going to try cutting out the DF gradually by bringing it back 15 minutes at a time every few days but she'll still probably wae up anywhere up to 7 hours later!
don't get me wrong, 1 feed a night is fine with me and i certainly prefer the 5am feed as it gives us all a good long stretch asleep initially and then a few hours after but it really aggrivates me when my friends who have no set routine have babies who sleep through (although her DS does get fed to sleep ...meow!!!) will she ever sleep from bedtime through to morning? is it a weight issue? if she got enough calories would she sleep longer or is it perhaps habitual now? help?!?