Today I tried to wind down earlier - after 45 minutes of A and when I saw her first yawn. We did our normal wind down. I put her in her crib awake. She was ok for about 3 minutes, then she started fussing. I tried to let her work it out, then she started crying. I tried to s/p. She was calm for about 2 seconds, then started fussing with intermitant crying. After about 5 minutes, she start crying, then screaming. When she started screaming, I picked her up to s/p. That didn't work and her crying got worse. So I added rocking. After about 3 minutes, she was out. I let her sleep for about 5 minutes on my chest and then put her down. She stayed down for about 40 minutes. Then she woke up fussing. Again, I tried s/p with same results. I finally picked her up and s/p with rocking and she slept. I again tried to put her down, but she woke up and by then was too stimulated to sleep.
I posted on the reflux board too, but I think night time routine is affecting daytime naps... this was my other post:
I posted another topic earlier, and did some looking back at my daughter's diary and think I may be on the brink of developing a monster. At night, she usually goes down pretty easily after her 10:00 feed (her 7:00 can be a battle), and then wakes every three hours (almost to the minute) until morning to eat. Each time, she goes to sleep pretty easily. However, after she eats, because of her reflux, she falls asleep upright on my chest for 30 minutes and then goes to her crib.
During the day, I cannot get her to sleep without rocking her to sleep and then putting her in her crib. Even then, I will only get 30-40 minute naps out of her. Today, when she woke up early, I tried to s/p her back to sleep. She fussed for about 5 minutes, then started crying, then screaming. As soon as she started screaming, I picked her up and tried to s/p. That didn't work. I finally added rocking her. She went to sleep in about 3 minutes. I let her sleep on my chest for about 5 minutes and then tried to put her in her crib. Instant crying. I tried to s/p, but she escalated. I then tried to rock and s/p again, but she was already too stimulated and wouldn't go back to sleep. I then started walking her around. She was fine. She looked around at everything for about 40 minutes at which point she started crying to be fed (was about 2 hr 45 m since last feed). I fed her and she fell asleep on the breast. I tried to pick her up to carry her to her room and she started crying. She is now sitting in her swing fussing, but not yet crying.
What do I do if s/p doesn't work? I don't want to have to rock her to sleep every time. What makes things worse is that at night, that is how she falls asleep.