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Help... refuse bottle after introducing solid :(
« on: October 10, 2006, 06:37:43 am »
My LO is turning 6mo this week. Three weeks ago, my LO had upset tummy. We fed her less and after few days she was fine. About two weeks ago, DD's suddenly lost her appetite. She literally pushed the milk out with her tongue. She cried and squirmed when we offer her bottle. The only thing she loves is her water bottle. Our routine totally fell apart  >:( We could only feed her when she's extremely starving or tired. I was dealing with a hungry and overtired baby.
We were worried, so we took her to the doctor. The doctor assured us there's nothing wrong with our DD and told us that she is going through a "phase." Don't push her if she refuses her bottle and start introducing solid. We started introducing her solid last week. She was confused when we put spoon in her mouth. Soon she was able to grasp the skill of swallowing solid.
Now, DD is refusing to all her bottles :'( She only opens her mouth and smiles when we put a spoonful of solid in front of her ???
I just feel my DD is extremely stubborn :( It has to be her way....
I'm exhausted. I don't know where I've gone wrong. Should I just let her CIO when she is hungry and not giving her any food except her milk?
I know she's not feeling comfortable because of her shots three days ago. But refusing bottle.... ???

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Re: Help... refuse bottle after introducing solid :(
« Reply #1 on: October 11, 2006, 18:47:34 pm »
Could your DD be teething?  A lot of lo's refuse their bottles when they are teething. Have you tried rubbing teething gel on her gums a few minutes before offering her a bottle?

At 6months milk is still her main source of nutritian and the solids that you are offering should only be tasters for her to get used to grasping the concept of eating off a spoon, and dealing with solid food on her pallat.

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Re: Help... refuse bottle after introducing solid :(
« Reply #2 on: October 11, 2006, 19:21:50 pm »
litomi

Can you post your routines before and after? So we can get a better picture of what has happened.

thanks
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Re: Help... refuse bottle after introducing solid :(
« Reply #3 on: October 12, 2006, 03:06:19 am »
Thanks Lauren,
This is what our 4hr routine looked like (before everything fell apart)
Wake up 5:30-6:00 Feed
6:30-7:00 leave the house to my mum's
8ish nap (usually 1hr-2hr)
9:30-10:00 Feed
11ish nap (again 1hr-2hr)
1:30-2:00 Feed
(Go home with mum)
3:30ish cat nap (usually sleeps until 4:40)
Books, Bath, Feed at 5:40ish, bed between 6-6:30
DF 10

When I first when back to work, she started to take 1hr nap. We have worked on it and she started taking 1.5-2hr naps. She used to take three 6oz bottles and 7oz bottles for bedtime feed +DF. She's a good eater, used to finish her bottle within 20 min.

After her tummy problem, she squirmed and cried when we tried to feed her :( She just refused bottles and she pushed milk out of her mouth with her tongue if there's milk in her mouth :o She only wanted her water bottle (with slower flow)
Our feeding "cycle": Try to feed her when she wakes up in the morning, after trying for 10 minutes, no luck. Put her down to play for 15min or so and try to feed her again. Usually no luck, so I put her down to play again for another 15 min. to see she gets hungry. This cycle will go on and on until she's exhausted and extremely hungry. She then started crying... I have to calm her down, until she's relaxed and then she's willing to suck ??? She was then feed to sleep >:(

So we took her to the doc to see whether there's anything wrong. The doctor assured me that my LO is absolutely fine. DD is just going through a "phase" and needs to start her solid. He also recommended us to let DD try different types of formula. Maybe she likes different taste. The doctor was surprised that DD hasn't started solid yet. He even told us that DD should have 2 meals of solid at her age.  ::)
He also recommended to feed LO every 4.5-5hrs. How can this work out?

Anyways, we bought different kinds of formula and changed to faster teat to see whether it would do the trick.

Right now, I can't really say there's a routine.  :'( During the day, my 6mo spirited LO is so curious about her surroundings, eager to try out new skills. It seems she only wants to eat or nap when she's in the "mood." I can't really wind my LO down when she's hungry.... so naps usually follows until she's willing to eat.

I know I need to make adjustment to my routine when LO is 6mo. I'll also check EASY forum for some 6mo. EASY routine for my LO. I posted here because it started with a feeding problem.

Last Saturday when she had her 6mo shots, the doctor checked her gum. DD is not teething yet. It's not teething problem.





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Re: Help... refuse bottle after introducing solid :(
« Reply #5 on: November 06, 2006, 22:10:16 pm »
 My 1st was angel textbook & easy to feed, this one (2nd) is touchy!! I find that she often won't take milk.  I try to get as much milk into her prior to solids.  It's not always easy but that's what I aim to do & she's growing on it!  Don't know if it's much help.
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Re: Help... refuse bottle after introducing solid :(
« Reply #6 on: November 07, 2006, 05:35:43 am »
Thank you... my LO has been eating much better lately. Yesterday, she started vomitting & runny tummy. Stomach flu, I guess. I have to use lactose free formula.... hope she'll like the taste :-\