HI Jo! Eva is so sweet. You sound just like I did! At 4 months, I had my game plan ready! This is what it was: I would start off by having DS lay in his cot during A times to get used to it for a couple of days. I would have him try his a.m nap in there the next day and the day after that his a.m and p.m nap assuming all was well. (we never did catnap in bassinet or cot, I always did it in stroller swing etc..) then the day after that I would do the night sleep.
WELL.....DH and I were letting him have his "A" time on the first day, we took some pics,(our big boy in his own bed!
) played some music, played with him and cooed with him in his new room...had him get used to the room etc... then I looked at DH and said: "Or for the love of Pete, do you want to just go for it and let him sleep here for tonight?! Look, he is so happy." We went for it! I had the monitor glued to my ear the whole night on full blast volume, I did not sleep a wink. Well, you guessed it, my little angel slept heavenly! DH and I just laugh when we think back at the whole thing, it was all so thought out and gentle and we were so worried and I was so scared and didn't feel ready, and there you go!
HTH,
Aisling x