I haven't looked at the other links, but it sounds like you are on the right track. WE moved DS to a new room with the big bed to make room for baby. We set up Ds's room way before we put him in it. We let him hang out in there during the day and put his stuffed animals to bed in the big bed for several weeks before we switched him. Then, on the first night, he was so excited to be able to sleep in there. He got up a ton of times that first night and the first couple of weeks were rough, but now he sleeps through the night in there and was napping well until a couple of months ago when he dropped his nap! HTH! Erin