Hi Natasha thankyou for replying,
I am sorry to hear your LO suffered reflux, it is a horrible phase for them. I hope DD is much better now, my Daniel is a different baby.
To answer your question, I used shh/pat to help him through the short nap (5-6 month age) and it worked well. Now if he wakes early from his nap I leave him in his cot for 1/2 an hour to see if he will go back to sleep, unless he begins to get upset, sometimes he goes back to sleep without fuss, but most times he will just roll around quite happy until I go and get him and sometimes he gets upset, this is when I think it is teething or something. I watch him on the monitor and if he looks like he is trying to go back to sleep and can't I will go in and PUPD and try to get him back to sleep, but most times he is wide eyed awake and ready to get up! So I get him up!
As for extending the awake time, is it best to do the morning session first as in going from 3-4 hour EASY?
I have tried a few naps at the 3 hour mark, simply because he just took longer to go to sleep, but he still has woken earlier than 1 1/2 hours, so this is where I was unsure. Do you have to move the A time slowly over a period of time before the naps improve? Maybe 1 or 2 naps doesn't count?
As for the 4-4.5hr awake time, he seems to fall asleep easier in this bed time, but I was not sure really how long they should stay up before bed? He is so hard to read these days.
Thanks for your advice
Sharron