thanks so much for your responses. sometimes i think we get caught up in what we "should" be doing.
i tried my lo in a sleeping bag today and he slept fine until the 45 minute mark which i have managed to get him past for the last week. i think at this point he needed the swaddle to help him thru. ive tried him a couple of times during the night and i cant really tell if it makes a difference as we're just at the point where he no longer really needs his night feed and im using the paci to get him back off so his 4/5 oclock sleep is currently a bit unsettled.
i think ill keep using swaddle for naps and maybe try without on a night (his day sleep is not the best).
i guess he'll just drop it on his own
thanks again
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