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Keeps popping out of bed...it needs to STOP!
« on: August 28, 2007, 03:43:49 am »
My 5 yr. old and 2 yr. old sleep together in the same room.  My younger daughter sleeps in the trundle of big sister's bed.  We thought it would be a good way to transition younger dd into a bed....once we purchase a new bedroom set for her.  Anyway, every night, after we've done the bedtime routine, younger dd pops out of the trundle over and over again.  We bring her back and take her lovey away until she lies down and gets back under the covers.  I'm at wits end because it isn't working.  I really don't feel like reducing her to tears by taking away her lovey and not giving it back....what else can I do?  Put a gate up at the door?  It's driving me crazy.  I spend nearly 45 mins. bringing her back to bed until she finally stays in there.

On another note, younger dd also leaves her bed at night and climbs into our bed after dh and I are asleep.  She brings an armful of animals and piles them all in.  She behaves like a complete bulldozer and we all end up piled on top of dh on the edge of the bed....a queen size bed.  For dh and I, the sleep is lousy.  How can we stop little dd from doing this without full blown tears in the middle of the night?  She says she likes sleeping with us....we wouldn't mind sleeping with her if she weren't such a bed hog!  :-\

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Re: Keeps popping out of bed...it needs to STOP!
« Reply #1 on: August 29, 2007, 01:09:56 am »
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Re: Keeps popping out of bed...it needs to STOP!
« Reply #2 on: August 29, 2007, 04:54:21 am »
huh?

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Re: Keeps popping out of bed...it needs to STOP!
« Reply #3 on: August 29, 2007, 05:10:58 am »
I bumped up your post so that it doesn't get lost & to the bottom of the page. I am hoping someone can give you some ideas as this is not something I have dealt with myself :-\



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Re: Keeps popping out of bed...it needs to STOP!
« Reply #4 on: August 29, 2007, 19:41:51 pm »
Its sounds really difficult - and really tiring.  If you really want them both in their own beds & staying in their own beds, maybe it needs a bit of drastic solution.  I'm no expert at all but here are my ideas..  Maybe you  need to sort the two problems at once - and get both children in bed throughout the night.  Both you and your husband take time off work (if you work) - cancel everything extra in your diary....and prepare for some long nights of taking each child back to bed repeatedly.  ANd take it in turns to nap during the day (that is you and your husband - theres nothing like over-tiredness to make you loose your persistence!).

I've just taken my two year old back to bed 101 times over 90 minutes because he kept getting out of bed.  I didn't say anything except when he started crying - I didn't make eye contact - I tried to keep myself a blank canvas (difficult tho when he was covering his eyes because he thought that I couldn't see him like that! - was so cute!) Eventually he flaked out.  It takes an awful lot of persistence and moral support from your partner to keep you both on track.  It pays off tho - for me the number of times he gets out of bed reduced a lot tonight but he needed to know that I wasn't going to give in. I'm pretty confident now that in a night or two he  will going to bed & staying in his bed.

I really hope that there is something there thats helpful.  Good luck

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Re: Keeps popping out of bed...it needs to STOP!
« Reply #5 on: August 29, 2007, 20:06:30 pm »
Our dd was two when we made the transition and we were very mean >:( !!

We told her we'd take away her covers if she got out of bed!  :o

Not as bad as it sounds... she has adopted a few more things to have in bed including some blankets, but her main lovie is her bear. So we threatened and carried out the threat of taking her covers away if she didn't stay in bed. 8 months on and we rarely have that to deal with now. Not sure if you can adapt this for your purposes!