DI - not found anything yet. Actually haven't looked for a while... too depressing when you can't what you like so we've kinda put it off.
Kate - you're absolutely right! I was waking up in the morning & talking about the nap & she was waking up & telling she wont nap so I think it really did become power of a struggle kind of thing. We're not at the stage where she'll ask to go to bed but she is happy to follow me to her bedroom
Jennifer - she was otherwise going to bed at 7.30 (well falling asleep at 7.30) & I've only started putting her down earlier when she didn't nap to avoid the overtired state. If she had stayed up any later I would have gone for the straight jacket
. All is good because she is napping & we're back to her old bedtime. It was just a matter of me seeing her needs (Im going to sound like Kate now) & taking the time to help her relax....so 11 days of my help & now she is sleeping in her cot!!! Either way, I would have been happy if she still wanted to sleep in my room.
At least I know what to do now if we go through this phase again