I suppose I could? funny you mention it because I'd seen a different one at the drop in clinics but the one that came today was my 'official' one that I had from birth and she said 'I wanted to come because the other HV (the one at the clinic) told me she was really concerned.....so I've come because I know you' - I was thinking - you don't 'know' me at all - we must have spent 3 hours in total together and that wasn't the impression I got when I went to the clinics....anyway, I don't want to start ranting about that again.....you're SO right I just want to enjoy her....she's the most beautiful baby in world ....oh no, I've set myself off....anyway, I need to seriously think about that too - as it is for a long time the 'relationship' isn't it?? ....Loop of fruit made me laugh out loud - now that's a first for a while x thanks ladies xxxxx