Hi all, my ds is 4.5 months and I'm about to pull out my hair with the short naps (averaging around 30 min). His schedule is this:
8am Wake/Feed
8:30 Activity (nothing too crazy since he tires easily)
9:30/10am Put down to nap, he'll fuss for about 15 min, but then sleep for 30min
10:15/10:45am Activity (just to keep him occupied)
12:30 Feed
1pm Wind down to nap
1:30 Nap (sleeps fo 30 min)
2pm Activity
4pm (gets cranky very quickly. so I try a second nap here, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't)
4:30pm Feed
5/5:30 Naps (30 minutes)
6pm Activity (typically a walk)
7:30pm is bath/feed/bed
I'm figuring that he is getting too old for this feeding bit every 3 hours, so I am trying to lengthen the time between them to 4 hours. But he sleeps GREAT at night (7:30-6am, feeds, and then back to bed until
, so I don't want to mess that up working on his naps. If he doesn't take his early afternoon nap, then we are both in a world of pain until I either plunk him into a carseat and go driving (which may/may not work) or wait it out until about 5/6pm when my husband comes home and gives me a bit of a break. I try to get him to fall back to sleep, but he just gets so mad being in his crib that it's either get him up and do some activity or let him CIO in his crib (which I don't like to do). I've tried the EASY method for a bit but he has Physical therapy that he has to go to in the mornings that ruins him taking a longer nap in the morning, which I think snowballs the rest of the day as a result.
Someone please help! It is so hard to hear him cry alllllll day! And my family lives far away, so I'm pretty much on my own here.
Any suggestions, advice?