Bens mamma - welcome! Big hugs for having to deal with reflux on top of everything else. Our LO is 7months old now and still suffers from it but it only really shows by her poor sleep and sick because she laughs and smiles when she's awake and not tired. We've reached the point where she needs more gaviscon but if I give it to her she gets blocked so she's starting to feel the pain again. We've been finally referred to a paediatrician (to reassure me - Dr is happy with things!!) but I'm also trying to see if I can get a private appointment on our work healthcare scheme, which might be quicker. If you need advice on reflux (eg meds, support) the reflux, colic and crying board is ace.
Thanks Mileshunt. Don't you just love it when the doctor tells you everything is fine and you're telling him/her it's not fine?! You're the one in the trenches everyday...not them. I'll be sure to check out the reflux, etc. board....P.S. Our Pediatrician has Ben on Axid and it seems to really help without any noticeable side-affects. I hope your LO settles soon.
Bens mamma,
Welcome.
Thanks Sherrylnn.
Serena - I hope things are improving a bit for you. As mentioned, I tried the pat/shh..., but it only helped for a couple of days. I saw that he was screaming, covering his ears, and arching his back a lot. So, now I don't say a word (unless I think he can deal with it), and I just lay a hand on either his chest or his legs...usually legs since they're constantly up in the air. Occasionally I have to do PU/PD, but if he's arching his back, I just gently lay him back down and watch to see if I should do another PU/PD, or just rest a hand on him. I also try not to make eye contact. Also, I don't usually swaddle for naps, but if he seems to be on the way to hysterics, I quickly and quietly swaddle him, hold for a brief minute, then lay him back down. This seems to have helped a bit as well.
I've been keeping Ben home over the past week to work with him on sleep training and have received tons of support and advice on the sleep boards as we go through it all. I even hid all of the beloved pacifiers. He does seem to be improving slowly but surely on his short naps and EW's, so I'm plugging right ahead. Today he was able to avoid an EW with just me laying a hand on his legs for about 15-20 minutes. And, he did pretty well with extending 2 of his naps today the same way...even though his first nap of the day was a nightmare with an hour of hysterics before getting him out of bed to go eat. Last night he figured out how to turn over from back to stomach after we laid him down around 7:00 (had to remove the wedge pillow after I saw him flipped over on top of it and struggling). I thought for sure we'd have a restless night after all of that excitement, but he actually slept better than ever!
The main benefit I'm getting from BW [aside from this website
] is that I am much more compassionate, calm, understanding and patient with my spirited LO as he learns how to sooth himself. I'm no longer taking it personally when he cries.
Have a spirited day/night everyone!