You'll probably see this else where as I'm ranting about it liberally, LOL, but here's what happened last night:
Last night, for the first night in ages, I went out (to a church meeting) and DH was home with DS. Came home to find that DH let him totally spoil his dinner by eating tons of generic golden grahams. Come 3:30, DS woke up, and wouldn't settle again. I spent nearly an hour in his room trying to settle him. Then I was starting to get queasy (in my 1st trimester), so I woke DH. He spent an hour with DS, still couldn't get him to properly settle and it was now 5:30 and DH had to get ready for work, so he came and got me again. I ended up laying on DS's floor, singing to him for 30 minutes before he finally fell asleep and then I fell asleep on his floor.
Not being the most comfy ever, I had wild dream about a demon-posessed person attacking us. He kept getting closer and closer to my face and I started freaking out yelling "help, help." Except that I was actually yelling it, not just dreaming that I was yelling it, and I woke DS. It was 7:15 by this time--DS normally sleeps until 8:00--so I got him up and sat with him in the rocker for a bit.
Moments ago DH called to see how things went after he'd left for work. He comments, "Hmmmm . . . it's almost like DS had milk [DS can't handle any dairy and wakes screaming when he has it]. I wonder if there is milk in the golden grahams?" So I checked . . . sure enough, milk's right there on the ingredient list.
So, not only did DH let DS eat sugary cereal for dinner, he neglected to check the ingredients.
Sorry to vent, but DH is soooooooo going to BW prison.
When DS first woke I thought it was OT b/c of the no-nap, but pretty sure it was really about the milk.