well if I would have woken him after 10min, he probably would have napped again at 12:45/1---and then I would have needed him up again by 2/2:30---thats really what I should have done. but he was sleeping so peacefully I was hopeing he would sleep 2.5hrs and get caught up a bit.
I am going to try for a catnap just before 5pm and bedtime at 7
the thing is we have been doing bed at 6, and he has been asleep by 6:30, so when he wakes at 4am--hes either hungry from an early supper and won't go back to sleep or he has had 9.5hrs already and doesn't feel the need/tiredness to go back to sleep.
not sure on this point but I am really tired of him going to sleep so early--its not helping anything.
so I'm trying a diffrent plan, to put hi to bed crazy late, so that he sleeps later