Well we seem to be doing a bit better. Morning naps have been better since I've pretty much given up putting them in their cots! It's actually quite convenient, because it means we can actually go places in the morning if they nap in the car! They've miraculously been doing good 2 hour stretches in the afternoon, which is fab. I've been putting them down later - more like 2pm - and giving them a bottle beforehand.
And the last two nights, we've had only one wake-up between 7pm and 6am, at around 1:30. They down a 7ozs bottle and then go straight back to sleep. So we seem to have consolidated the dreamfeed and other night feed(s).
It's only been 2 nights though so I'm not counting my chickens just yet! Naps are definitely better though. This morning, I'm home and they went down in the cots at just past 10 (later than I used to put them down) with just a couple of minutes grumbling from one of them, and they'd still asleep over an hour later, although I did have to pop in and replace a dummy about 30 mins ago.
Definitely things are looking better!
Thanks so much for your help and concern.
Vicky
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