Vicky, you could try giving solids before milk and then the milk might decrease naturally. I'm planning to do this around 10 months and then around a year transition to 3 milk feeds per day. Alice takes in 32 ozs of milk per day. She finishes off 4 X 8 oz bottles. I guess if you feel they don't get much in the breast feed you could eliminate that one first and see how you go. However I don't breast feed, so don't know really.
Oh, by the by, Alice's first tooth popped through yesterday.
I could kind of feel a wee sharp bit, but wasn't sure, but definitely felt it today. I could see the buds just below the gums for weeks. Apparently the first ones are the worst.
Pauline