Just remember with the landing, that it is not actually the landing on the ground part, but the 30-40 min dissent that hurts one's ears. Of course during this time, you have to be in your seat, and belted with baby facing you, but they will not have a prob with you BF'ing them, I did loads of times. On the take off, they check to make sure all is safe, but then they go and sit in their seats, so if you BF they won't even notice, and as long as you put your child into the safety position if any complications arise upon take off our landing. We didn't use one, but friends used the paci for sucking action. I used the sippy of water too. HTH.
Aisling x