fun thread. Of course with so many Mom temperaments adn so many child temperaments, there's no one way that works.
We've taken the approach that we always offer veggies. If they don't finish them or at least eat a few bites, they can't have 2nds of the parts of the meal they do like. So for instance if I'm having a meat with a few veggie sides and cornbread (which they love, but I make with flax and whole wheat) they can't have a 2nd helping of cornbread until some veggies are eaten. If they absolutely hate it they can eat more of the other kind or whatever. It seems to work well, and sometimes they take me up on the offer and sometimes they don't, they can choose. It's not a big struggle and we've been consistant and so it's not new to them.
I also try to offer the stuff they do like often, like peas and carrots.
Funny story. Last night DH made the mac 'n cheese from the pureed book. It has squash in it. In the past the kids loved it. Mac n' cheese is Luke's fav. Last night he served it with peas and green beans on teh side. Luke wouldn't touch the pasta, and just filled up on peas.
I'm all about hiding good nutrients in anything and everything. It's not just for them, it's for me too. But it should never replace any other veggies you'd normally serve so they still learn to eat healthy. I made a choc. cake with beet puree. I told Dominic flat out what was in it while he was eating it. He thought it was funny!