urgent help pls

[owens3116]

hi all quickly lo is 12mnths old always had a bedroutine always naps well in day last 2 week night mare screaming when goes to bed wi/wo doesnt help as when she sees me she crys harder and louder tonight made herself sick through crying sooooo hard still awake now and still crying jst dont know what to do with her shes had calpol incase of teeth but to be honest i dont think its that help me !!

[linfran]

Ds goes through phases of this but he's a bit older (2).

Sometimes a cuddle can be all that's needed to help settle, if she is frightened she may need that physical comfort - could she be overtired or has anything happened during the day that could be playing on her mind a bit (change of routine, even something innocent she could have glimpsed on the telly?).

[Maffoos mummy]

If she's getting distressed to the point of making herself sick I think you'd probably have better lUck with gradual withdrawal rather than wi/wo to be honest. Then later when that's more established and she's not getting as distressed you may find you can return to wi/wo.

[Layla]

If she's waaay past her bedtime and is making her sick, I would pick her up, hold her until she's calm and stay by her bed until she's asleep.

Whats her routine like? How long has her fighting bedtime been going on?