Thanks for the support Brenda. Please remind me what wake to sleep is again. I have to reread the BW book all the time, my short term memory is really bad with this sleep deprivation.
Also here is a typical day for us:
We do EASY with about 30-45min of eating time. I've been trying tro breastfeed for 10min and follow up with a bottle of pumped milk to give a full feed. We then do an activity which ranges from a walk outside, to tummy time, swing, read a book, dance, or just talking and listening to music. He pretty much can only handle a total wake time of 1hr -1hr 15min (which includes the feeds) I've been trying to take him into his room 15-10 min before he reaches his limit to calm him before he gets sleepy, that has been helping to be able to put him down for the first sleep cycle, but no improvement for making it through the second sleep cycle.
As far as putting him to sleep for his naps I also swaddle, massage his little face because he loves it and put a little dab of lavendar scent on his swaddle to calm him.
7-7:30: starts our day, dad usually does the feed
Next succsessive feeds are every three hours 10, 1, 4, 6 or 7, and a dream feed. Then he does his 2am wake up. He actually has moved the 4 am feed to 5am himself for the past 2 days so I'm excited about that.
I noticed the that he is very hard to put down after the 4pm feed so I usually go for a walk and have him sleep in the stroller for a cat nap or longer if he'll do it. Then it's our bathtime ritual with a massage, swaddle, and sleep for the night.
Any advice would be appreciated.