Me again . . . apologies for 'stalking' you but just when I thought it was starting to make sense we've had an awful day - starting with the EW mentioned on my PP.
Just wanted to post what happened so that you could compare with the previous days - and give me any pointers as to where I might be going wrong as I've spent, what feels like, most of the day trying to calm an inconsolable LO
wake at 5.00
left in cot chatting
E BF at 5.45
A
E Solids at 6.50
A no tired cues - wind down at 7.50 (tired cues during story)
S 8.00 to 9.20
E BF at 9.35
A
E Solids at 10.35
A no tired cues - wind down at 11.20 (tired cues during story)
S 11.35 to 12.15 . . . 12.20 sh/pat for 20 mins - managed to settle & get her to sleep - woke when I got up to leave the room
journey to baby sign class (may have napped in car seat)
E BF at 1.35 (not very interested as in middle of class)
A
S Asleep in car seat on journey home (2.45 to 3.15 at the most) Tried to transfer her to cot when I got home. Serious meltdown - tried to calm her for 30 mins
E BF at 3.45
A no tired cues - story time at 4.30 (tired cues during story)
S 4.40 put her down in her cot - started to cry when I left her room, followed by 20 mins of screaming - couldn't settle her again
decided to skip catnap and go for earlier bedtime
A Bath at 5.10
E BF at 5.30
A Bedtime story (tired cues during story)
S Put her down at 5.55 - started to cry when I walked out of the room again (think she's starting to suffer with SA) - she only cried for a minute and then talked herself to sleep by 6.05.
I'm not really happy with the early bedtime as it may contribute to yet another EW tomorrow BUT also I was worried that I was going to end up with an extremely OT baby as that's what seemed to be happening as the day went on.
Sorry to bother you again . . . but just needed to offload (feel quite tearful myself after having such an upset LO today
) - would love to hear your words of wisdom when you get a chance.
TIA Berni x