Hello all,
About three weeks ago I gave up breast feeding and decided to exclusively pump my milk and give it to LO in a bottle. This works amazingly and the first night we dropped a night feed (from 2 to 1). He hit the 12 week growth spurt and went back up to 2, but the last few days he has gone back down to 1. (He's 13.5 weeks now).
I have a few questions about this though:
1) In one of the BW books, I think I read that your baby will reject spoiled milk so it's basically impossible to give LO bad breat milk. Is this true? This afternoon, LO was fighting with me to finish his bottle, he only ate 2 oz. I basically made him eat the rest (I knew he was hungry) and couldn't figure out why he wasn't wanting to eat. Then I smelled inside the bottle and I completely gagged. Fresh milk doesn't really smell. This stuff was disgusting.
My process is that I pump after he feeds and put it in the fridge. Then I take the oldest bottle already in the fridge (I never have more than 2 pumped bottles in there at a time), maybe only 6 hours old, and sit it on the counter to start to cool so it doesn't take so long to warm up at the next feed time.
Is this wrong? Should I be leaving it in the fridge until use? It should be good for 4-6 hours right?
LO seems OK still, other than being gassy but I was worried!!
Also, I warm the bottles using a bottle warmer in which you put a little water in and turn it on and it basically steams the bottle. Is this OK or should I be heating it in hot water? (This takes longer, especially if it's coming straight out of the fridge). I think the warmer is intended for formula bottles.
One last thing, is EBM just as good as breastfeeding directly? My reasoning for switching is, 1) LO kept falling asleep at feeds during the night, 2) he was eating every 2 hours (and gaining lots of weight) so I felt I needed to see how much he was eating (much better - we are now moving from 3 to 3.5 hours) and 3) DH takes over a few of the feeds but LO is still getting yummy milk!
Thanks for the any input!