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Re: 20 months old---STILL STRUGGLING WITH NAPS
« Reply #15 on: September 11, 2008, 23:24:18 pm »
Hi Aly!  Thanks for your response!
I have tried to put her at 11.30 for the few days, and I am still getting an hour nap???????
Today
Woke up 6.30
Nap 11.30-12.40
BT  7  hard time falling asleep

When she is awake for 6 hours in morning, she usually sleep a nap of 2 hours.  Do you think that since she has been on one nap for 8 months, maybe she is able to be awake for 6 hours.  How do I know if she undertired???
Aly, thanks for helping me out.  Putting her at 11.30 and getting an hour of nap is very distressing because by 12.30 she'd be up again!
This one hour nap just started to occur about 2 weeks ago.  Before she'd take 1.15 to 2hours.
What do you think?

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Re: 20 months old---STILL STRUGGLING WITH NAPS
« Reply #16 on: September 12, 2008, 00:56:29 am »
well maybe try for 12noon and see how you go?  do it for a few days.  I wouldn't go straight to 12.30, it could be too much of a change.  Has she been on 1nap for that long?  gee!!!  makes sense then that she could go longer A time.  don't forget the type of stimulation too - too low and she wont' sleep long (i had that last week when i was sick - not a lot for L to do, so naps were short, just when i needed long!!!

so try 12noon for 3 days with the 7pm asleep time and see what happens.

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Re: 20 months old---STILL STRUGGLING WITH NAPS
« Reply #17 on: September 12, 2008, 23:06:10 pm »
Aly: Thanks for suggestion.  It has been two weeks and her naps are not extending--I think that I need to increase A time to 6 hours. 
Today woke up before 6.30 and put her down at 12 and slept 1 hour AGAIN!!
Due to short naps of 1 hour, bedtime is becoming a problem falling asleep..maybe too tired from short nap.
I think that I need to extend her awake time.  I will let you know how it goes!

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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #18 on: September 14, 2008, 01:25:12 am »
I have been writing her sleep pattern and it seems to me that her sleep has changed from sleeping 1.25-2 to just 1 hour.  I tried putting her down at 5.25-5.5 before nap for a couple days...still 1 hour nap.  Then tried putting her later...still 1 hour nap.  Does anyone know what this might mean.  She does sleep 11-11.5 hours at night...so total of 12.5. 
Today
woke up 6
nap 12-1
BT 6.30
Is anyone experiencing this too?  My lo has been on one nap for 8 months. 

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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #19 on: September 14, 2008, 01:30:40 am »
Siria, Lilly goes back and forth from 1.25-2.5hrs.  What it means is that some days she needs more sleep than others. She is more tired some days than others.  who know's why love.  But I will say (as I 've said before ;) ) that you need to try something for at least 3days to see if it works.  Personally, on a 6am wake up ,we would have done a 11.45 nap, at the latest (as I will be doing today in about 15mins LOL).

don't go crazy thinking why. As long as you are giving her opportunities to sleep (which of course you are) and watching her cues, and she is happy then don't worry.  If she's not happy on the short naps, then sorry i have no advice.  Lil was always a short napper which has carried over even into one nap.  I do now what i did then to 'solve' it - I didn't worry as she was ok.

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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #20 on: September 14, 2008, 01:40:12 am »
Thanks Aly, I appreciate your support :)
Your words came at the right time-  I am worrying too much about this and stressing myself out- not good.  I guess I was expecting her naps to lengthen by now and since now they are 1 hour all the time, I was kind of disappointed.  But maybe from now on, they will be 1 hour no matter what.  I think she is happy; she is hard to read in term of tiredness unless she is OT.
I did try 3 days in a row by reducing awake time and still---1 hour on the dot.  Then also lengthening---1 hour again.
Aly, thanks for reading my posts---I really appreciate it!!!!!  (((((Hugs)))))))

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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #21 on: September 14, 2008, 02:03:59 am »
No worries love. I hope i didn't sound harsh, but if she's happy try to roll with it.  If she's happy when she wakes from her nap and not too ot at bedtime, then that's just her. :)  I would try and keep to a set nap time or set A time regardless. she may extend in time.
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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #22 on: September 14, 2008, 16:33:59 pm »
Hi Aly---you did not sound harsh at all...in fact, I appreciate your help sooooo much.  It is such great support to have someone reassure you  and encourage you to roll with the punches --- I especially needed that...I have trouble just going with the flow.  Hugs to you and Lilly :) Much thanks, Siria

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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #23 on: September 14, 2008, 22:08:23 pm »
Just wanted to chime in, my 16 mth old often takes only around an hour nap, her most common length is actually 70 min.  She sleeps from 7:30-7 most nights, occasionally will do 12 hrs but usually 11.5.  I think thats just the way she is and it sounds like your lo as well.  She doesn't seem overly tired at bedtime and is usually happy.  Every couple weeks, I get a blissful 90 min or 2 hrs but its not often.  I wish for a 2 hrs napper so often but it looks like I just won't get it.  It is tough though and I feel for you.  Especially since I work out of my home part-time and count on napping to work :(

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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #24 on: September 15, 2008, 00:29:30 am »
Hi abaker89!  Yes, that sounds like my lo!  She just started doind 70 minutes these last two weeks. 
May I ask when your lo turn to 1 nap?
Also, what is her schedule like?
Definitely sounds like my lo---she likes sleeping more doing the night (that is a blessing though).
Thanks for reassurement, I appreciate it!!!
I was stressing myself too much over this but Aly and you have helped me to go with the flow a bit more. Thanks!

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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #25 on: September 15, 2008, 16:52:27 pm »
She started switching to one nap around 14 mths and it has been a long and drawn out transition.  She started refusing her afternoon nap and would do that off and on for weeks.  It has taken forever to get her to a nap time at 11:30.  Our schedule now is somewhat consistent, wake between 7-7:30, nap after 4 hr 15 min A time and bed between 7-7:30. 

She sleep on average 11.5 hrs at night and does 12 hrs a few nights a week.  Her naps range from 25 min on super bad days to 1.5 hrs.  I'd say in a given week there will be 1-2 naps of 1.5 hrs and the rest will be 70-75 minutes long.  She used to do 80 minutes but that length has disappeared, its either 70 or 90.  I wish I could get her to do longer but nothing works.  If you find anything, let me know! 

I don't do much now to try and extend her nap, sometimes if she isn't fussing too much, I leave her in there for 20 more min.  Most of the time she stands up and talks to her bunny until I go in, she is rarely upset when she wakes.  I have tried a longer A time and it results in the 25 min nap more often, someone on here said that is OT so we stick with the shorter A time for now.  I was hoping by the time she is your lo's age, we would have longer naps but I am realizing now that it is unlikely.

How long has your lo been on 1 nap?

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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #26 on: September 15, 2008, 21:40:31 pm »
abaker89, if she is waking happy, i would leave her to play for a little bit. It's a great habit for her to get into. And if she's waking happy,then there is no need to try and extend her nap.  It's normal for the 2-1 transition to take a while, for the majority anyway.
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Re: Please Help! 20 month-1 hour nap for days????
« Reply #27 on: September 22, 2008, 01:05:03 am »
abaker89: My lo transitioned to 1 nap at 14 months of age.  She has been a long napper in general even in two naps. 
So for you it has been 2 months since transition to 1 nap?  Yes, it takes a while for them to get used to it.
Many of the moms I know said that their lo started taking 2 hour naps after 2 years of age.
That is what I am waiting for :)