My 4 month old is having a tougher time with naps because my preschooler has to be dropped off and picked up. I'm not sure what to do. We need to load the van at 9:15 to go but baby's nap starts around 8:30 (we are transitioning to 4hr EASY). 9:15 is the 45 minute mark so when I go to put her in the carseat, she wakes up and stays up. Same thing in the afternoon. I swaddle her in the carseat but this still doesn't help everytime.