thanks stacy! yes, the crock pot will now be the only way to make chilli. live and learn!
yes, your suggestion sounds great. i should get him more invloved, he would probably love it as toddlers love to feel important and like great helpers! thanks again.
p.s the damn pot is still soaking, it may be ruined! but, dh made me a nice strong last night to take away the emotional pain caused by the chilli.