Thanks Em
During the day the feeds are between 15-20 mins. She's always been a quick nurser. At night though she only nurses for maybe 5 mins. She doesn't seem hungry. I tried all A time length possible, and in the morning when I nurse in bed she falls asleep after about 15min, so her uninterupted A time is never more than 2hrs.
Yaya, DD is 16weeks tomorrow. And as far as sleep, I swaddles, cuddle a bit, then put to bed and she falls aslee on her own. I've tried the paci but she doesn't like it much, so 90% of the time she falls asleep without, but sometimes if she is a bit to tired I'll let her suckle the breast to calm her and then falls asleep in her bed. And for NW, I don't let her cry or whine and go to her almost instanly because I don't want her waking DH and DS. I tried picking her up and patting he back, but doesn't work everytime, if that doesn't work I nurse her, then she falls asleep. We haven't started solids and don't plan on doing so for another few months. I'm just wondering though if it would help to add a bit of cereal, my thought is it would make things worst. She is a very good nurser and has always been. What I can't understand is how could she be doing 8-9hrs stretch and suddenly stop. I know she has the ability to do so and that's what frustrates me. From 4-5weeks old, she only had one NW and no DF. I've been trying to tweak her routine for the past month and nothing changes anything. She is still in our room, but we only have 2 bedrooms, so I can't put her into the other room until she sleeps descent so she doesn't wake DS.