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Re: My Total Elimination Diet Journal
« Reply #30 on: January 01, 2009, 18:03:56 pm »
Good luck Tari, that sounds promising.
Did you get through Christmas ok with your restricted diet? All the extra temptation must have made it even harder than usual! You're doing such a great job!!
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« Reply #31 on: January 01, 2009, 18:25:23 pm »
Thanks Mel!  And thanks again for sending the Neocate - you're an angel!  :-* :-*

Hi Lucy - Christmas was fine - it's so strange now, I just don't look at food the same.  It's merely fuel to keep me going and keep my supply up.  I did drool over some of the desserts - but otherwise I just had my steak and avocado (and a glass of wine!  woohoo) and enjoyed my family.  Thank you for asking about us and thanks for the encouragement - I appreciate it!  :-*  Also - a bonus was not gaining the obligatory 3-4 lbs I usually do around the holidays, lol.  Hope you and your beautiful family had a great holiday!

So - we tried another bottle last night - mixed 2ozs Neocate w/4ozs EBM.  So far things are looking good!  Oh please please please continue - it would take such a huge burden off of my shoulders to know that I have a reliable backup if my supply doesn't keep up.  We plan on doing 3/3 tonight and if that goes well we will probably let DH do a DF w/the formula most nights to give me a break (I'll pump around that time though) and keep her system used to it.  She's eating well, and it looks like she has gained weight in the last few weeks - she's got the chub back on her legs, woohoo.  We go for her official weight check on 1/11, and I think it will be fine - she may stay in the 50% for weight, but I'm pretty confident she isn't losing...

Will update how the Neocate is going in the next day or so!


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Re: My Total Elimination Diet Journal
« Reply #32 on: January 02, 2009, 12:32:42 pm »
Great news Tari and so glad you made it through the festivities ok.


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Re: My Total Elimination Diet Journal
« Reply #33 on: January 03, 2009, 10:02:44 am »
Hi Tari
Just popping in to read how things have been going for you. I'm glad to hear that you are trying the Neocate - I know it's really hard to give up on the BFing, I gave in after only a few weeks and it took me about 3 months to "get over it" and that was before I knew that DS has MSPI.  You are such a dedicated amazing woman to be trying this, I am in total awe of that. 

But, at the same time, you need to keep yourself healthy and full of good nutrition as well, and that's just as important for your DD.  Here's hoping that you can keep your supply up until you finally find the culprit and then can resume a close-to-normal diet to keep BFing your DD.  HUGS!

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Re: My Total Elimination Diet Journal
« Reply #34 on: January 03, 2009, 23:17:59 pm »
Hello Ladies, May I join in? My 3month old son has reflux and eczema. I have so far eliminated dairy, eggs, nuts, fish, chocolate, tomato, apple, coffee, hot spices, (beef and pork but those I had not eaten for ages)all citrus fruits, banana.

Now, I have found this thread and I see that I am not enough consequent in following what I eat and I also sometimes thought that a little bit of this or that can not hurt. what a fool!
 I need to reread all these messages, loads of knowledge! Until I figure out how to start the total elimination diet I will add to my no go list wheat and really look into everything I eat!!

will come back for advice tomorrow. greetings and hugs from Luxembourg!

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« Reply #35 on: January 03, 2009, 23:54:00 pm »
Wow! I have just read all this thread! You are an amazingly strong woman, I suffer with food phobia so restrict a lot of foods but wow your list is so so much smaller than mine! I admire your dedication and the fact you are striving so hard to make sure your babe is ok! You rock big time!!glad you can use the nepcate too, my mspi daughter thrived on it, she wasn't the best eater bottle feeding wise as didn't like the taste but her symptoms of bad tummy blood in stool etc vanished! Anyhow enough of my rambling! Well done and I will be following along x x

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« Reply #36 on: January 04, 2009, 00:39:49 am »
Thanks Shivi.  On another note - wow, you are close to your little bub arriving - wishing you a smooth and easy birth...

Hey Mashimaro - thanks for the encouraging words - it really is so bittersweet.  At times I think I'm just making things worse continuing BF'ing, and I would be devastated to stop so have to make sure it's not me being selfish, and on the other hand I just want the best for my DD and would feel terrible if I couldn't give her the same BF'ing relationship I had w/my older daughter.  The mommy guilt is intense!  (((hugs))) to you for feeling such angst after stopping BF'ing - you did what was best for you and your bub and that's all that matters...

Hi Bovi - welcome!  Please come here often - I started this for many reasons - to be accountable to myself, able to print off and bring to the doc for a little bit of detail, to get some support from this awesome community, and to help anyone going through the same thing.  I feel like such a freak sometimes when people don't understand why I can't go out to lunch or dinner, or I panic because I can't remember if I licked my fingers after giving my older daughter some ice cream.  There is power in support!  Are there any other symptoms your son is exhibiting? 

Hi Emma Lou - thank you so much for the sweet words!  I'm so glad to hear that your DD did well on Neocate.  Must have been such a big relief.  I can relate to the food phobia - have had issues w/food myself before this and Wendy really made me think about what the reprocussions could be from such a restricted diet.  The good news is that my mindset appears to be changing for the better in terms of food = fuel/energy which was always hard for me to wrap my brain around (was always a reward/deprivation type thing..)

Questions to the mamas whose babes use (d) Neocate.  Will their poo change at all?  I had a very mucousy diaper this morning and just wanted to cry.   :(  To be honest though - she has mucousy stool every other week, so might have nothing to do with it - I'm just paranoid of every new thing.  :P  It could be that her system is just getting used to it, could be unrelated, could be my imagination.  Any feedback would be appreciated.

All told though - I'm feeling very positive about introducing the Neocate.  Gwyneth is so darn happy, it's heartwarming.  I just want it to seamlessly continue.

...more to come....
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Re: My Total Elimination Diet Journal
« Reply #37 on: January 04, 2009, 08:12:27 am »
thanks Tari....and great to hear how happy little Gwyneth is!
Sorry...have no exp with Neocate so can't help with that one!


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« Reply #38 on: January 04, 2009, 10:25:28 am »
Has she has a cold? That can make for mucousy poo. With neocate we had soft dark green to black stools. Dd has always had a tendancy towards mucous stools x

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« Reply #39 on: January 04, 2009, 13:43:10 pm »
That's good to hear about the poos - G had a khacki green one the other day.  Regarding the cold - possibly - this little bub has had at least 5 colds in her little short life!  DH, DD and I all had caught a doozy the last week, and (knock on wood!) Gwyneth didn't seem to get it - a couple of sneezes for a few days and a bit of a runny nose.  So maybe it's the last of it working itself out.  I see mucous in her poo and it's hard not to go back to the early MPI days followed by the blood, pain,etc etc...


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« Reply #40 on: January 04, 2009, 14:08:39 pm »
Completely understand, I would go into a massive panic too!! Just keep an eye on it, it may be that it really is just a cold which is a good thing, the snot runs down back of throat and is swallowed a lot by babies! Then it is passed and of course you see it in the nappy. Big hugs and how are you feeling on this diet? X x

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Re: My Total Elimination Diet Journal
« Reply #41 on: January 04, 2009, 16:53:04 pm »
I know when I first switched my son to Neocate his poos were super runny for the first couple of days before it was more normal.  I know it can take a few days for the body to get use to it.  I'm glad everything is going well for you!

And you are welcome for the formula!  I'm really glad it is working.  And thank you for the cute outfits again!  I absolutely love those type of clothes, soooo cute!
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Re: My Total Elimination Diet Journal
« Reply #42 on: January 04, 2009, 19:07:28 pm »
Hi Tari, never used Neocate, but I would say if Gwyneth is still happy, I would try not to worry too much about the odd mucousy nappy. Easier said than done though!!

Bovi, welcome, and good luck. By the way, we're neighbours! I'm in the Netherlands, although I'm Australian, not a local. :)
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Re: My Total Elimination Diet Journal
« Reply #43 on: January 05, 2009, 12:36:00 pm »
Hi everyone, I am facing the 45 minute naps (4-5 a day)so took me a while to get back here.

LucyA, we are neighbors in all ways, I am a Hungarian living in Luxembourg :)

scarlett'smom, To answer your question on the symptomps I thought to put on paper (screen:)) our story so far.

reflux:
DS always had very strong hiccups and explosive poos. Everyone said it was okay I should not worry. Then when he was around 10 w he started to be fussy when eating (EBF), you know how it is sooo frustrating that instead of having a very calm relaxing time when feeding lo screams, cries..So here is what I did:
1- getting rid of his dummy, some say it can confuse the baby (major fight with DH about the dummy :( )
2. - I thought I did not have enough milk so I started pumping-- result: overproduction and DS getting even more fussy when feeding

then we had two days when he started to spit up, but not too much and not always, then it got worse, more frequent more quantity, then I ran to the ped. He said DS had a reflux, by that time I was suspecting that.WE got I ml Gaviscon after each feeding.

In a week time he refused eating the whole day, I ran to the emergency around 16 pm, they said it was colic and we got SAB simplex. Again in 6 six days he refused eating and cried like a soprano opera singer, again to the doctor, he said it was not the colic, but a big reflux. We got Motilim 3x a day plus kept Gaviscon.

We had one non eating days since that and I took him to the emergency. they said I should not take him there just give him paracetamol and wait until he calms down and then feed him.

 ekzema:

He always had those buttons on the face, everyone said it is a normal reaction to the milk and will be gone, well it didn't plus we got some yellow substance behind the ears. Ped said to hydrate his skin. I did but obviously not enough. Then came the big eating time of christmas. His face became red and yellow dried layer on the top, very ungly. I noticed on the head and a little on the arm leg. We went to the dermatologist and got the typical treatment. I a worried about the hydrocortison.
It is getting better but he scratching his had and that is terrible to watch

I also had eczema before so I just know from experience how bad that is. I got rid of it five years ago with a very restricted diet. Mid- december it came back on two fingers, but I had so many other things to take care of that I just did not do anything about it. Well I should have known better, we are the source of the well being of our little babies so we have to take care of ourselves too! Maybe if I had started to have a restricted diet already mid-December  my lo would have not developed eczema. Seems to me that we might be sensitive to the same food.

Other symptoms: he has mucousy stool for about 10 days. Doctor saw once and said it could be a small virus infection of the bowels, but nothing to worry about. Do you know what else it can mean? It is not normal isnt it? ???

Lo is waking, gotta go, now he only slept 30 minutes. Surely OT, we are getting to the vicious circle of short napping, jesus!

I ll come back later. I started to take notes from your messages not to forget important stuff. E.g. I did NOT think of taking calcium supplement! 

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Re: My Total Elimination Diet Journal
« Reply #44 on: January 05, 2009, 16:34:05 pm »
so I am back, DS taking his 5th 45 minute nap.
What is MPI?
DS's stool changed mid December from winnie-the-pooh yellow seedy to orange-brownish mucous.I ve tried to find info on this phenomena with google without luck so far.  Please tell me what you know about this. We are going to the ped tomorrow and I d like to be prepared for him being not much interested :(

he is young but seems not to be interested in babies. He did not say a word to DS! not even a little hello, >:(
 he treats him as an object. but he is said to be the specialist in gastro child diseases in Luxembourg

Here is what I do eat at the moment:

potato, rice, chicken,turkey, oginion, pear juice, organic peach jam without any sugar or other stuff, I also use green spices like persil, basilic, olive oil, margarine made of olive oil.

I dont really have the means to go to the bio/organic shop, in fact I am afraid of driving with DS crying on the back seat, I m afraid of causing an accident. but what I can I do buy organic. As a dessert I eat the pear sauce made by HIPP for 4 month olds :)

With this list do you think I am still running the risk of lowering milk supply? if yes what should I add next?

do you think I can drink chamomile tea? ???
 It is so cold here and had no time today to go to the pharmacy, but tomorrow I ll definitely buy the calcium supplement.

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