ok so i dont know what happened but i saw her rub her eyes, immediately wound down and rocked for 1 minutes, she got sleepy, i put her down, she mantra cried a lil and went RIGHT TO SLEEP ON HER OWN!! AHHHH!!! this has never happened....hopefully it sticks, thanks so much!! i feel so bad i usually shh'd her more when she did that mantra cry thing, i didnt know she was trying to soothe herself, oh boy i feel so stupid, haha!