Can I post here too??
I just posted on "general sleep issues" about this problem, but I think I need to join in here.
I just started him out on 4 EASY over a month ago, he turned 5 months last week, and it was going ok. He now STTN!! We have been working with his naps from day 1, they have always been 30-45 minutes long. In the beginning, we had a few days of beautiful perfect 2-hour naps after we realized that putting him on his tummy helped him transition into a longer sleep after the 45 minute hump. He then started to learn to roll, and at the 45 minute mark would roll off his tummy and start playing with his toes, hands, cooing in his crib, etc. etc. We still tried to extend his nap by flipping him back on his tummy and doing shhh/pat, pu/pd and after about 30 minutes he would go back to sleep for another 45 minutes.
The last few days, he is refusing to go back to sleep and I am at my wit's end hovering over his crib trying to get this child to sleep longer! He wakes happily and I've tried waiting to see if he will fall back asleep (he just plays), I go in right at the 45 minute mark to see if I can pat him back to sleep (he just flips over and starts smiling at me), or I spend the whole 2 hour nap time trying to get him back to sleep (he eventually gets hysterical, is screaming and kicking and slamming his legs down until I get him up). Today I decided to just get him up after 45 minutes because I don't have the strength to fight him anymore. I am TERRIFIED he will start with his NW's again, though!!!
I guess my question is, for those that deal with the 45 minute nap thing, how does your schedule look? How can I make sure it's still EASY if he is napping so short? Also, I will try extending A time but this can only happen for the first activity time, correct? Once he gets that first short nap then the subsequent A times have to be shorter to accomodate that, right? What if I don't know EXACTLY what time he wakes in the morning? I usually hear him anywhere from 6:00-6:45 am....I just don't know if I should start tweaking the schedule, or if I should just stick with what TRacey states in her book (just be firm and keep doing pu/pd until he falls asleep - I just feel horrible forcing him to do something he is clearly so unhappy about!)
HELP!