I missed the behaviors. She is three and I thought she was being three. She has always been a spirited child and challenging. She is just like the old saying "when she was good, she was very good, and when she was bad, she was very, very bad." Milk has always caused her have very bad behaviors with an extremely low frustration tolerance. It has something to do with feeling so crummy all the time and not knowing to express it. She she doesn't know life doesn't have to hurt all the time. Wanting to constantly be carried or in a warm tub.
We are a few days into the total milk-free diet. I'm just hoping this is what it is. The constant feeling of needing to have a BM, stomachaches, waking up early is all back. When I took her to DR he ran a CBC with diff and found her lymphocytes to be alarmingly high. I did some internet research on this, bad move, I know better than that. He wants a repeat in three weeks after the elimination. Right now I'm just waiting on her insides to heal. I see some improvement - the stomachaches are not as constant.
On the selfish note, I'm going to miss being able to go out to eat whenever and always having "safe" foods and snacks around.