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How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« on: March 20, 2009, 14:05:22 pm »
I need help. My daughter is such a picky eater and a light eater. She's only 25 lbs and 3 yrs old.  She's only gained 1 lb in the last year. She is currently taking Lactalose to help with constipation because she holds on to it and doesn't eat enough fibre. I don't know how to get fibre into her via food, and she won't drink water, just milk.

I'm at my wits end. I don't know what to do anymore. Any suggestions??  How do you get your lo's to eat fruit and veg?
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #1 on: March 20, 2009, 14:14:07 pm »
Hi Spectra...I am going to jump on here...

we have a great fruit eater but not a veg eater...well his veggies are limited to carrot, cucumber and petit pois and sometimes maybe corn.....thats it!

with fruit, we mix and miatch, fresh and dried, keep the variety and talk about it being yummy and sweet. He definately gets his five a day but rather 4 servings of fruit and one of veg....so I need help with the veg.....

I do hide veggies in homemade burgers....courgettes and onions....and in pasta sauces (tomatoes, red peppers...) but lately, anything green is yuck in Oscar's opinion...and he was a kid that ate ALL steamed veggies off his highchair at 12-20 mths...then the 2s hit and we're stuck in a 4 veg rut!!!

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ps I don't have the constipation prob as we eat lots of raisins over here...actually have the opposite problem quite often....never rains but it pours!


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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #2 on: March 20, 2009, 14:26:48 pm »
hi melanie,

hugs!!! that would stress me out.

let's start with a question: what DOES she like to eat or eat readily? X
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #3 on: March 20, 2009, 14:34:43 pm »
Hehe thanks guys!

She loves

Bread
Cookies
Cheerios
Pita bread
Pizza
Spaghetti
Alphagetti's
Macaroni and Cheese
Ham
Chips :/
Carrot
Chicken
Brocolli
Banana's
Potato

That's pretty much it.  It usually cycles between all these foods.  She use to LOVE the Quaker Instant Oatmeal.  Then I found out it had 50 percent of the daily requirement of Iron, which probably doesn't help.  I switched to an Organic brand that only has 10 percent and 6g's of fibre, but she doesn't like the taste and will only eat 1/4 of it.
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #4 on: March 20, 2009, 15:02:59 pm »
Hi Melanie,

So if I were you I would try sneaking some healthy ingredients into her food that are relatively tasteless but will add nutrition.  Here’s what I use:

- Ground flax seed (ds gets this in all cereals, oatmeals, etc). This adds good fatty oils as well.
- Tofu (you can puree silken tofu into a lot of food without it being detected – like in her mac and cheese.
- Ground nuts (and seeds). Can be a very healthy fat if she can eat these in addition to the vitamins. You can use them to bread her chicken, sprinkle on potato, etc.
- Ground whole oats (here is an idea: grind up a bunch of the healthier oatmeal to a powder. Then add this to her Quaker Instant oatmeal). You can also use it to flour chicken nuggets and then bread them with ground nuts or seeds, etc.
- Wheat germ
Also we always have cooked pureed veggie cubes in hand in the freezer in case the opportunity arises to sneak them in somewhere.

To take her list here are some ideas:

Bread
-   maybe you can flatten the bread and then roll it up with something sweet like a date jam or something, so it’s like a little roll-up or even a ball
-   if you ever bake your own bread you can add some of the things listed above, or some shredded veggies

Cookies
-   have you read through the decelptively delicious sticky in this forum? There are so brilliant ideas for cakes and cookies, I was just on there and grabbed a recipe deb posted for brownies baked with spinach and blueberries, neither of which you can taste
Pita bread
–   does she like any filling in it? If so I can give you some ideas. And will she do whole wheat?
Pizza
–   does she like it if you make it too? You can do tons with pizza sauce to add pureed veggies in there. The best one I’ve found is pureed pumpkin or butternut squash. It adds a great rich flavor but it really is hard to tell there’s something ‘different’ – only better. I can usually get away with a cube of zucchini or so in there too without it being detectable.
Spaghetti
– same with the sauce, will she use any?
Chicken
- already mentioned an idea above with making nuggets with healthier outsides. Another idea is to use ground chicken, add a little whole milk and a bunch of grated veggies plus some wheat germ, and make a meatloaf. (or little minimeatloaves).
Potato
-   if she likes mashed potatoes maybe you can try steaming some cauliflower and then pureeing it and adding to the mash, it’s really nice and doesn’t taste much different. I usually add flax to ds’ and he doesn’t notice much
Oatmeal
- already said but maybe a better bet is to go back to the Quaker but then add stuff to it, what do you think?

Also can you get her to eat a multivitamin?

By the way I just wanted to add that given your list contains broccoli, Carrots, and Bananas, you are probably doing pretty well right there. Just give her lots of these and try to keep offering other things with low/no expectations and see how it goes. These are really healthy fruit/veggies though so she should be getting some good nutrients from these...
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #5 on: March 20, 2009, 15:47:59 pm »
Wow, thanks for all the tips!!  I will definitely be trying them.  I already mash my own squash and sweet potatoes for my son, I can easily save some to put in her spaghetti sauce!  I kind of stopped letting her eat bananas and carrots because they are not good for constipation?  That's what I heard, but I hate not letting her eat them because she will eat lots of them.

Do you use a food processor to puree the foods?  I don't have one and was wondering what a good brand is.  Thanks again! :)
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #6 on: March 23, 2009, 13:34:28 pm »
Hi Melanie,

I just saw you asking about a food processor on another thread and realized I never wrote back to you! Yes I have a food processor but to be honest i hardly ever use it. It's big and cumbersome. What I do use is this handy thing I have made by Braun, which is a staff mixer, mini food processor, wisk and food storage system in one. It's just proven to be really, really easy and I've done all my baby foods in there. Here it is: http://www.braun.com/global/products/fooddrink/foodpreparation/handprocessors/freshsystem.html

Regarding the bananas and carrots - they are binding, but I would hate for her to not eat them considering how little other stuff she eats. Maybe you can pay really close attention to fiber content and try to sneak stuff in that way? Also prunes and prune juice have the opposite effect, amybe you can sneak those into her diet somewhere (i.e. even in cookies??!)

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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #7 on: March 23, 2009, 14:20:26 pm »
Wow, that looks like an awesome blender.  I'm going to have to search the stores here and see if I can find that!  Thank you!  I have been adding some Psyllium fibre to her oatmeal cereal, and watering down her milk, so I'll definitely let her eat the bananas and carrots as it is good for her and she'll eat it! lol  Thanks!
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #8 on: April 02, 2009, 18:00:24 pm »
Do you ever do smoothies? Ella LOVES them and I can put pretty much anything in there. We use vanilla yogurt (you can find brands with fiber in them for DD's constipation), milk, assorted fruits (usually berries - strawberries, blueberries, raspberries, black berries, etc. very easy to use frozen ones or fresh), sometimes some honey and flax seed. Ella thinks she's getting a milk shake and gobbles them up. Little does she know they are very healthy  ;) I always make some for myself and DH too because they taste very good!  ;D
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2009, 08:36:13 am »
I have not read the other posts but have you tried smoothies and homemade vegetable soups you can always purree the soup if it would appeal more that way.

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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #10 on: April 08, 2009, 08:55:51 am »
Hiding the food is the best way to start. :D Does she like bolognese sauce with her spaghetti? If so you could add grated carrot, zucchini, any other vegies. They are easily hidden by the tomato sauce - you can hardly tell.
Also agree with the smoothie idea - so much fun and very healthy! I have a banana smoothie for breakfast most mornings lol



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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #11 on: April 20, 2009, 19:14:21 pm »
Things have been going really well actually.  She's eating more and doing much better!
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #12 on: April 21, 2009, 10:21:50 am »
yay, glad to hear it!!
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #13 on: April 21, 2009, 17:43:04 pm »
I just cut out snacks really.  Or if she is hungry for snacks I only give her fruit like grapes and bananas, instead of cookies and crackers.  I just make sure to buy the fruit and veggies that she really likes and it works :)
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Re: How To Get 3yr Old To Eat Veg/Fruit???
« Reply #14 on: April 21, 2009, 18:03:54 pm »
Haven't read thorugh all the posts but I wanted to offer some hugs to you as my DD is a very fussy eating and has intolerancers too which make it hard to gether to eat thngs that she used to love eating as they don't taste the same. Soem things that I do with her pasta is a sun-dried tomatoe saurce with onion, spinach, yellow pepper and basil, I then add grated carrot and parsnip. She love this and this is a regular dish on her menu. For pizza we make facers with veggies and she gets to put her special grated pizza cheese this way she doesn't know it's not normal cheese but her soya cheese. I also add wheat germ to her cereal and instead of buying bread for her I make it myself and add veggies to that. Today she has eaten turnip and coriander bread and I told her it was fairy bread when she asked what the bits were in it, she told me she loved her fairy dust in her bread and I ashould thank the fairy that left the bread on the side today.  Would she drink a smoothie if you told her it was thick milkshake? I know it is wrong to lie but I do anything to get my DD to eat even if it means telling her a fairy left something today while I was out shopping or a princess came around today with this delicous looking basket and asked if I wanted a basket like it for princess Loren. Oh and I veen bought some flower cutters and cut flowers out of pastry and make fifi surprise with them. And if she would take a vitamin tablet holland and barratts do a multi-vitamin that is in the shape of sarfari animals, these are what I buy for Loren and I have told her they are a special sweet that she gets one of every-day again another little lie but it works