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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #15 on: April 12, 2009, 21:54:00 pm »
Thank you everyone.  I've decided to do the TED.  I read the info on the Dr. Sear's website but I still feel like I have no clue what I'm supposed to eat.  (I'm a vegetarian.)  I would be so appreciative if I could get some advice about what I can eat, what a typical day of eating looks like, etc.

Thank you so, so much  :)

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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #16 on: April 12, 2009, 23:10:17 pm »
I'll have to think on that one, but while I"m thinking, and in order to give me a direction, *how vegetarian* are you?

That sounds like a ridiculous question now that I'm looking at it, but bear with me. :) I know from your earlier posts not vegan, but some folks will eat the odd helping of fish now and again, some will be OK with poultry now and again, others will only touch meat if it's properly free-range, some won't touch it ever ever. Some are OK with meat broth, others not. (I have friends who are or who have been in all categories.)

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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #17 on: April 13, 2009, 00:08:08 am »
Hi Deb,
Thanks for responding to my post.  I don't eat any meat, though I do eat some fish.  I won't eat meat broth.

thank you!

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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #18 on: April 14, 2009, 21:54:38 pm »
For a true TED you want to only start with 4 low allergen foods.  Dr Sears recommends the lowest on the spectrum.  So I would take those (I think it's rice, squash, pears (?) and lamb) and take out the lamb and look for another low allergen substitution that's high protein.  I'm kind of pressed for time, but wanted to throw that out there.  So maybe a bean that you really like?  I'm not vegetarian so I don't know what's a good substitute...maybe lentils?  You could google low allergen beans/legumes.

Water for drinking (and  pear juice if it passes!).  Give it at least 2 weeks then if you have a true baseline (i.e. baby's symptoms have gone away or drastically reduced) you can start adding foods.  Everything has to be added as a new food - supplements, spices, etc. There is also a wonderful website kidswithfoodallergies.com I think (Spectra is that it?)  and the BF'ing forum is awesome. 

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Good luck!!!  I'll check in later...

oh - and sea salt (non iodine).  make sure it's not table salt, it has a soy and/or corn by-product (I learned the hard way.. ::))...
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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #19 on: April 15, 2009, 00:57:30 am »
Thank you so much.  I would never have thought that i couldn't eat table salt! 

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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #20 on: April 15, 2009, 10:53:31 am »
Table salt?!?!?  :o :o :o

One thing I do here for protein (although I'm pretty much carnivorous ::)) is to cook brown rice with sunflower seeds and/or pumpkin seeds in it. I soak the grain overnight and cook in the morning for breakfast (very filling! :)) or soak thru the day and cook for evening meal. Millet and quinoa are other grains that work well with this technique (and I think they're both gluten-free?), although millet doesn't make good leftovers, gets sort of congealed after it's been sitting an hour or so, so eating that fresh is your best bet.

My DH makes an awesome bean salad that goes by the name of Mississippi Caviar; there are are several versions out there, but the basic recipe is three cans of black beans/black-eyed peas (choose your own ratio :)), diced onions and peppers and garlic, and Italian dressing. You'd have to tweak it and make your own version to make sure it's allergen-free, but it's delicious by itself (and makes a fun finger food for kiddoes :)) or over lettuce as part of a larger salad. I've also seen recipes that add corn to that mix, which I think would combine with your beans for a more complete protein profile.

The odd helping of fish, of course, would add some protein; I'd make sure to avoid shellfish, though, since that can also be an allergen.

I know you're avoiding soy anyway, but a note of caution: soy cheese has casein (dairy/milk protein) in it.

I want to say that mushrooms have a decent amount of protein, although it's still pre-dawn here and I'm not fully awake and might be off-base on that. The plain white mushrooms are nice hot or cold (like in salad, even cooked and cold), and portabellas, well, YUM! Cook them and season them like you would meat, just make sure the seasonings fit the TED.

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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #21 on: April 15, 2009, 12:59:05 pm »
Thank you so much Deb for all the info.  so appreciated  :)

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« Reply #22 on: April 27, 2009, 23:01:58 pm »
Table salt?!?!?  :o :o :o

I know crazy isn't it!

FFMama - just checking in to see how you're doing!  Hope all is going well....


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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #23 on: April 28, 2009, 00:07:39 am »
Hi,  Thanks for checking up on me.  I'm a bit baffled at this point.  I've been on my diet for 15 days now (no dairy, soy, wheat, corn, peanuts, chocolate, caffeine) and there has been NO change in LO's wakings or spitting up.  I spoke to a friend of mine who is a pediatric GI dr and based on the symptoms, he doesn't seem to think that it's reflux.  I don't know???  I'm going back to the pediatrician on wednesday and I think we'll go to see a GI in the area as well.  I just want to get to the bottom of this and figure out if it's a sleep issue or a GI issue.  Then I'll at least know how to proceed.

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« Reply #24 on: April 28, 2009, 01:03:17 am »
(((hugs))) Sorry to hear not a lot of progress.  Very glad to hear you've got a GI appointment.  Please let us know how it goes.  Hang in there - it'll work itself out.....unfortunately it can be a slow process since so much of it is dependent on your LO's reactions which is no fun.  Any other issues besides the spitting up (and sleep issues). 

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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #25 on: April 28, 2009, 11:58:20 am »
:(  That's too bad that the diet didn't help you.  I hope you get some more answers when you see the GI specialist.   
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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #26 on: April 30, 2009, 00:27:32 am »
Hi,  Thanks again for the support.  LO is still very gassy but incredibly difficult to burp.  He spits up fairly often and continues to wake up at night about every 1-2 hours.  He now also has eczema all over his body, which comes and goes.  The dr still thinks that it is a dietary issue.  I'm on a much more restricted diet now and hopefully we'll soon figure out what he is reacting to. 
I'm exhausted but my new plan of action is to just go to bed as soon as I put him down.  My DH can feed him with the bottle before he goes to bed and so I can try to get some stretch of sleep.  Sad, because I really want to hang out with DH but I guess i need to make sleep my priority now.

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« Reply #27 on: April 30, 2009, 13:59:53 pm »
Oh poor you and poor bub!  :(  It does sound food allergy related, the frustrating thing is that it can be anything. 

Great plan about going to sleep when LO does and having DH give a bottle so you can get some rest. 

Quick thought - have you tried elevating the crib mattress?  If LO is spitting up it can be painful to lie down and that will def. wake him during the night - even putting him in a bouncy chair or carrier for a few nights to see if you can get some longer stretches?  My DDs symptoms included spitting/vomitting as well and we had the crib mattress very elevated, seem to help a bit.

(((((hugs)))))) hang in there, I know it is so hard.

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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #28 on: April 30, 2009, 14:01:52 pm »
Hi,

We did have the crib mattress elevated for a while but it didn't seem to help.  Now it's back down and there's been no difference in the amount of times he wakes up. 

thanks for the suggestion : )

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Re: Dr thinks LO is allergic to something in my milk. WHAT???
« Reply #29 on: April 30, 2009, 22:03:43 pm »
If this is still going on AND your doc still thinks it's dietary, might be time to break down and do the blood tests to see what he reacts to. (I forget the name of this, but a friend's DD has to get these regularly as she is HIGHLY allergic to a number of things but IS outgrowing some of the food problems.) There's only so much you're going to realistically be able to avoid, especially as a vegetarian, and still be healthy yourself, plus the sooner you find out what his allergies/intolerances might be, the fewer worries you'll have when it comes to starting solids.

Just a thought.....  :-\