Hi Ethan's mom!
Congrats on how well you'redoing with your lo! And you're being so proactive about teething
We had some clues that Dylan was teething before we felt any actual teeth break through. I'm a first time mom, so of course I misinterpreted some of them
First, Dylan was generally a very happy baby, and he got incredibly fussy, day and night, for *no* reason. He wanted to be held all the time during the day, was waking constantly at night and was really difficult to resettle, and CRANKY. He was so out of character that I actually brought him into the doctor! (yes, I brought my son to the dr for teething, laugh away
) It was about 2 days after his appointment that my mom was able to feel tooth bumps under the gums with her experienced hands. The eczema on his cheeks broke out pretty badly too, which my mom said was an indicator as well. He lost interest in nursing for a couple days too.
The problem with teething is that there's no symptom that's definitive except for feeling the teeth! Now that Dylan has got teeth I kind of know what to expect, but it was a mystery to me until mom felt the teeth under the gums. We gave him Tylenol, used chilled teething rings, froze wet facecloths for him to chew on. Those helped with his fussiness during the day, and the Tylenol helped a lot at night.
You can't use pu/pd on a teething baby because they're in pain. They need love and cuddles, not sleep training
HTH! Good luck with everything!