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11 months old (almost) waking earlier and earlier
« on: June 15, 2009, 14:10:51 pm »
I am sure many of you have seen the never ending threads about my LO.  He has had some health issues, which have definitely effected his sleep.  After 2 straight weeks of somewhat normalcy, now my LO is starting to wake at 4 or 4:30.  To be honest, he has always woken early (between 5 and 6), but it is getting worse.

During the week, my LO takes 2  - 1 hour naps or sometimes even shorter, because the environment isn't always condusive to sleep at day care.  This usually ends with an early bed time of 6 and as a result, we have a wake time of 5.  Eleven hours of sleep is the max for my LO.  On the weekends, my LO will take 2 - 1.5 hour naps, which results in a later bed time and he will still wake at his usual time of 5.  Someone did the math for me before and with longer naps and shorter nights, he was still getting 13 hours of sleep.  So he just needs less day sleep, to get longer nights.

Since last Wednesday, he has been waking between 4 - 4:30.  Yesterday he did this and almost refused a 2nd nap (DH did  alot of AP and got him to sleep 45 minutes after he put him down).  I have read about the 2 - 1 transition and I am wondering if the EW's are because of the need to transition to 1 nap?  But I don't see how we could do this when my LO can't make it too late in the morning.  Also, I wouldn't know how to start the switch when his sleep at day care is so inconsistent.  Could the nap transition be the reason for the EW's or am I missing something.
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Re: 11 months old (almost) waking earlier and earlier
« Reply #1 on: June 15, 2009, 14:54:27 pm »
Just offering hugs... I am in the same boat with my dd who is nearly 11 months.. we are getting earlier every day!!


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Re: 11 months old (almost) waking earlier and earlier
« Reply #2 on: June 15, 2009, 15:20:21 pm »
Isa - You must be a tired mommy like me!
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Re: 11 months old (almost) waking earlier and earlier
« Reply #3 on: June 15, 2009, 21:13:01 pm »
yep, very tired mummy.. but we are not just getting E wakes we are also getting the night wakes...

Just when things are starting to settle they throw a spanner in the works.

Do you think then that we are ready for the one nap!

I have been trying to limit the am nap for about 1 month now and so far hasn't made a bit of difference.

She needs totally reprograming.. thought about trying the wake to sleep about 4.30am but i'm just so tired I can't get my arse out of bed lol.

She has a really bad nap day last week had about an hour all day but slept well, I wonder of they just need less day sleep now....

I'm running out of idea are you?

Hope you have a late wake tomorrow, night night

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Re: 11 months old (almost) waking earlier and earlier
« Reply #4 on: June 15, 2009, 22:30:20 pm »
I actually just stumbled on one of your threads, so I see that you have been working on this for a while.  These LO's are so stubborn.  I think that my LO actually falls on the low end of sleep needs.  But he crashes by mid-morning because he is up so early.  So I don't see how 1 nap would work.  One day last week, we had an off day too and that night he slept almost 12 hours.  He NEVER sleeps that much.  That particular day he slept for 1 hour in the morning and then only took a 45 minute nap before I had to lug him to a doctor's appt.   He ended up having a 4 hour A time after that nap, because I couldn't get home sooner and that is the best night sleep we have had in a while.  But I think that was a fluke.

Tonight I put my LO down at 5:30 because he went to bed last night at 7:45 and woke this morning at 5:15.  He was so tired today and still only took his usual 2 - 1 hour naps at day care.  So early bed time it was.....

I am sorry that you are battling NW's.  We are finally having nights free of those.  But I can relate, because they went on for a while with us.  I probably shouldn't say that we are free of them though....my LO will probably wake tonight..lol
Kara