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Help...I feel like i have lost control!
« on: June 16, 2009, 09:39:01 am »
Hi All,

Well things have just seemed to have gone to pot! Before the weekend, my lo had been moved to a mixture of a 3.5hr EASY and 3hr EASY, so she was having 2 x 2hr naps a day, then a catnap, then bed. She woke after 30 mins after going to bed, but then went down for the night after her 8 o clock feed. This was fine, apart from she started waking twice in the night, but i decided i could handle that whilst she got used to the new routine.

But then i went away for the weekend, and even though i made sure her first nap was always in her cot and was 2 hrs, the rest of the day was a bit rubbish as we were either out or travelling. I then tried to keep bed time the same too.

I just accepted that things wouldn't be great whilst we were away but hoped i could try and get things back on track once we were back, but yesterday was a total disaster and today seems to be going in pretty much the same direction! She didn't nap longer than 45 mins yesterday, and i think she had a total of 2.5 hrs sleep all day!  :-[ So by the night time she was absolutely knackered, was too tired to eat, too hungry to sleep, so i managed to get 2oz down her then she finally zonked at 9.15pm. She actually slept well in the night, waking at 1 and 5.30 and took a total 5oz both feeds. but she was still very tired this morning, so i left her and she slept til 8.45!  :o She has just had 1hr 45 mins A time without a yawn so i put her down anyway as she was getting ratty, and wouldn't settle without a dummy! She normally settles really well on her own. That is another thing, she has really started to need a dummy alot more, and i'm really worried its going to become a prop. Is using it to help her settle bad???

Anyway i am rambling on, i just feel like its all gone to pot, what do i do? Was leaving her to sleep a bad thing? I am worried that this will be the 5th day that things haven't been right, and i am worried the whole routine is going to go wrong!

Sorry for the long post, anyone got any advice???  :-[

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Re: Help...I feel like i have lost control!
« Reply #1 on: June 16, 2009, 11:45:05 am »
Forgot to add that she has also decided that she won't take more that 3oz per feed, even when i make her wait 3.5 hours. She seems to be dribbling a bit, not alot, but she does dribble and chew her hands. And she has recently started rolling over front to back.

Could this be a mixture of developmental, teething, and needing to extend to 4hr EASY do you think?? I haven't a clue!

Do you think i should try extending her to 4 hours for her next feed, or try a bigger teat??? I don't think its hunger stopping her sleeping as she doesn't seem bothered by feed, only problem is that if i need to get her on a 4 hr EASY and she short naps, she can't stay up long enough to wait for a feed....HELP!!! I really don't know what the hell to do.

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Re: Help...I feel like i have lost control!
« Reply #2 on: June 16, 2009, 16:06:43 pm »
Well today has been even worse!! 2x 45 min nap and one 20 min one!!! I really don't know what to do. Not had one feed over 4oz, and the last feed i waited until she cried for food at 3hrs 35 mins and still only 4oz took

she is cranky and not happy!!!

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Re: Help...I feel like i have lost control!
« Reply #3 on: June 16, 2009, 16:55:56 pm »
Hi sorry, things are not going well for you  :(  HOw old is your lo?  Any health issues like reflux?  Any chance she is teething?  Can you post your routine in EAS format so we can take a look?
E: 7:00 3 oz
A: (includes time from moment she woke to moment she went to sleep)
S: 8:30-10 etc etc