Hi...
I have only read some of what has been written.. Thats a tough sitaution that you are in
But here's my thoughts...
Perhaps there's a reason he wont drink milk. I've heard that kids can react that way to things that they are allergic to.
My daughter's excema worsens when she drinks cows milk... which she sometimes still drinks (and likes), but mostly she drinks soy milk ( i mix regular with unsweetened), and sometimes goat's milk. I have a friend who's daughter wouldn't drink homogonized milk- she preffered 2%.. she also drinks almond milk. There are plenty of alternatives (less expensive than formula).
Also- Im sure someone's mentioned this- but have you tried different cups/bottles? LEtting him pick out his own?
Also- does he like yogurt? Cheese? Cottage cheese? Soy products? There are plenty of ways to make up the calcuim (including vegetables)
I hope you have some luck... and I hope Im not being redundant by not reading all posts before putting my two sense in!
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