I found this thread and I have a similiar problem with my 3 month old. For example, we are on a 7am-7pm EASY routine(or we try our best to be!) and it has looked like this so far today:
E: 7am
A: until 8am and started wind-down
S: 815am - 10am
E: 10am
A: only until 11am as he was tired and showed signs (according to my hubby)
S: 1105am - 1205pm (woke up for good!)
I tried until 1pm to get him back to sleep. I tried comforting him in his crib first, then I picked him up and rocked with him while humming to him, then we he started getting sleepy, I put him back and he woke again. I did my own version of shush/pat by turning him on his side and rubbing his back instead because he likes this better. He never went back to sleep so I fed him at 1pm
E: 1pm
A: only until 135pm
S: 145pm
My question is: if this happens, did I do the right thing or should I have just gotten him up after 20 mins or so of him not going back to sleep? I just wasn't sure!
Thanks,
April