It just seems so inconsistent! We've tried all kinds of A times, DS no matter what, just wouldn't nap! Starting from last night, putting down for bed, then woke at 23:15, I didn't think it was mantra, coz he was getting louder and more desperate and tonight at bedtime also. He hasn't needed help with night sleep for a very long time. I ended up sitting by the cot, head resting on the side of the cot, so as not to make eye contact. But he kept looking up to see if i was there. I guess I'm becoming a prop!!!
I know I should take care of myself, but with no sleep and having to take care of DS, I just don't know what to do. I put him down 15 mins earlier this evening and he ended up sleeping at 8, instead of 7:30.
Today:
5:42 wake up A 3h
8:45 S 30mins
9:15 A 3h 20 (aimed at 3h but took him ages again)
12:40 S 50mins (he was crying but I didn't have to go in, cried at 30mins and went back to sleep)
13:30 A 2h45
16:15 S 45mins (fell asleep in the pram)
17:00 A 3h
20:00 S he might wake again crying at 23:00...
I think if we didn't let him do the CN, he definitely wouldn't last till even 6pm. He was very tired. I did try to extend nap for both naps. He's definitely very tired from yesterday. Eating wasn't good at lunch/dinner. Just too tired probably.
I totally agree, cranky baby is just not nice, can't play nice, it's worse! Should I insist on extending 1st A to the target time or should I follow his cues?!?! Last 2 days I was following his cues and they were around 2h and then he screamed and just wouldn't sleep. I kept him low key almost 20mins before putting him down for naps, and perhaps he's not physically tired enough?!