Hello to all...
I come here and go pretty erratic and try to post and contribute, but I have received too many good advices here and sorted out many issues with Renee, that now I feel you are the ones to help me....
DD started early kindergarten this week, and has took it rather well i think. She cries a little but I have confirmed (staying hidden) that she only cries while I disappear, and then she goes and starts playing and enjoys herself. Also, when back at home, she is always happy and all chatty about her day (not that I understand all of it, but she comes with a big smile and a huge report). She takes her back pack happily in the morning and is all happy in the way to school, until I have to leave... but that is another issue, just so you know the new circumstances.
Since she started school though, even she was happy and all excited about it, she is been having problems calming and relaxing to get to sleep at night. We have been having to "help" her, up to 10:30. I teach high school (that is why she went to kindergarten this early), and it is getting to be frustrating to start grading at 10:30 when I was supposed to start two hours before, and my bed time is pretty awful, lately.
She did change her routine, and what impresses me the most that days as Tuesday and Thursday, where she has swimming lessons and gets home totally exhausted, she takes this long to get to sleep. She usually gets to sleep by herself, watching a lullaby video, in a portable DVD player we have installed for the purpose, so after the routine of getting a bath, and then getting her last bottle of milk, and teeth washing, which she honestly doesn't do, but at least we pretend, and going in to the room, I (or DH) stay for 10 15 minutes with her, cuddling and holding, and then she relaxes and then she gets to be left alone so she can go to sleep. Later we go in to put the video off.
This week we have done that and as we leave she starts Mom, pupoin (as she calls the pacifier that she uses to sleep and does not suck that much but just rubs around the mattress). Mom, milk. And then you hear noises of the crib, of her, trying to get out.. And she does everything in her power to stay awake as long as possible. The worse part is that you can see she is tired, she is yawning and closing eyes, but she keeps fighting it. I have tried massages, and she seems to enjoy it, but as soon as I leave she starts trying to stay awake again. She is having as well a couple of NW where she call us, and she only stops when she feels our hand in her chest and then dozes off back again! She is starting to have a little bit of dark circles under her eyes (me too!), and she is not particularly OT, but I can see it coming. She is a combination of a spirited and a touchy baby
I will add her actual routine now, including the one on the more tiresome days as Thu and Tue.
7:30-8:00 am, awakes and gets a bottle
8:00 breakfast
8:30 gets dressed and off to school
9:00 starts school
10:30 snack time
1:00 out from school, gets sleep at the car, I put her in her crib and stays sleeping for about 90 min average.
2:30 wakes up
3:00 lunch meal time (please consider that in our culture we eat lunch later during day)
Playing around, toys, fun time, chores at street.
** 5;30, Tue and Thur swimming lessons
6:30-7:00 dinner (light, as a yogurt, fruit or something not harsh for the stomach)
7:00-7:30 bath time
8:00 cuddling time at crib
8:30-9:00 sleep
She has always, always been in the high portion of A time, she has always had short naps and lots of A time, and I don't really know how she can handle it, I have even asked the doctor if it is normal she is not more an sleepy baby, and he says it is OK (DH is the same), but now getting to sleep at 10:30 to 11!! And then she EW, and you can see she is exhausted
Any idea of what is going on and how I can help her overcome this change and get more rest
Thanks in advance
Erika