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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #150 on: October 31, 2009, 09:08:26 am »
I know exactly how you feel, I'm in the worst mood today after yesterdays 5:40 then today, bam, 4:30am!! And OH is heading off away again in 2hrs! Gr!! *hugs* xx
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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #151 on: October 31, 2009, 11:28:35 am »
Huge *hugs* Anna
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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #152 on: October 31, 2009, 13:51:03 pm »
Agghhhh don't they drive you nuts?!!

Louis is regressing here too, i can see a new tooth emerging although he's not showing signs of teething but maybe that's the reason for the nw's? Could that be the case for Stanley?

I'm not in a position to advise really but looking back through your thread Stanley seems better suited to an early nap (sounds logical with ew) could you make that more like 2hrs from 11.30 to 1.30 and that might help him catch up?
If he is OT (probably is) personally i'd rather extend the nap than make bedtime <6.30pm

good luck for tonight  :-*
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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #153 on: October 31, 2009, 13:58:32 pm »
Bless him, he's doing his best. We had Little Kickers football this morning, he nearly fell asleep in the car on the way home. Couldn't get him down til 12.30, nap will be 12.45-2.30. Will try my hardest to get him in bed for 6.30, we've got a halloween party and trick or treating next door, will be v. exciting, I've already told DH he's getting up early tomorrow.





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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #154 on: October 31, 2009, 14:17:28 pm »
lol about dh getting up tomorrow  :D

Have fun tonight, sounds great!
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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #155 on: October 31, 2009, 19:20:11 pm »
Oh sounds fun! Have a good night (and lay-in!). Too right that your dh does it once in a while... everyone needs a break. Xx
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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #156 on: October 31, 2009, 20:32:04 pm »
I don't have any sensible suggestions; just lots and lots of hugs  :-*

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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #157 on: November 02, 2009, 07:12:22 am »
ohhhh come ON!!! Grrrr. I am doing everything right, just like it worked so well, why won't he sleep past 5.30??

I just love starting my day with a 40 minute tantrum.





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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #158 on: November 02, 2009, 07:16:40 am »
Aw no :( *hugs* you're where I was not long ago, when he wouldn't go past 5:30 at all.I just carried on doing what I was doing and it's starting to work out now. Sorry I don't have any advice :( xx
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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #159 on: November 02, 2009, 07:17:59 am »
He kicked me so hard in the tummy I still feel sick :(





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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #160 on: November 02, 2009, 07:23:11 am »
Its horrible when they get so worked up. Tyler is starting to perfect his tantrums and he's nowhere near the "terrible twos" yet! :o Maybe he'll wear himself out and have a good nap. Xx
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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #161 on: November 02, 2009, 10:09:05 am »
Oh no (((hugs)))

Tantrum = OT, I think?
Can't think of anything you wouldn't already have thought of yourself........can you try to squeeze in a little extra sleep somwhere just for couple of days?

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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #162 on: November 02, 2009, 10:12:37 am »
That's a good idea, Tyler being back on two naps seems to really be helping his sleep length at night and he's happier in the day (unless you count yesterdays fun at bathtime!!) Xx
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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #163 on: November 02, 2009, 11:39:59 am »
I can let him nap for longer - he'll sleep 2.5hrs if I let him. I have no idea if he was OT or not - the tantrum was because I wouldn't let us get up and go downstairs until 6.15.
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Re: Need help, not coping very well.
« Reply #164 on: November 02, 2009, 15:06:13 pm »
Big nap resistance at 12.30, slept prob 1 til 2.45.