Thanks for the links and your help:)
Today has been a little better
he has pretty much fallen asleep on his own though but not in his crib but EASY has gone slightly better. However we have let him fall asleep down here with us - I just found yesterday so stressful with the shh/ pat - also in the morning he just wouldn't stay awake!
Today has been
E: 7.00am - 7.20am
S: 7.20am - 8.00am - fell straight back to sleep and couldn't rouse him
A: 8.00am - 9.30am - dressed, and cuddle and then played in bouncer for a bit (fell asleep in there - bad I know
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S: 9.30am - 10.40am
E: 10.40am - 11.00 am
A: 11.00am - 11.10am Nappy change - still very sleepy and fell straight back to sleep
S: 11.10am - 1pm
E: 1pm - 1.15pm
A: 1.15pm - 1.45pm - Nappy change and cuddles
S 1.45pm - 3.15pm (fell asleep in daddys arms)
E:3.30pm-3.45pm
A: 3.45pm - 4.00pm
S: 4.00pm - 4.15pm - did not seem to want to go back to sleep
A: 4.15pm- 6pm - did not seem to want to go to sleep - happy to sit on daddy and in bouncer
E: 6pm - 6.25pm
A: 6.25 - 7pm Bath and dressed ready for bed
S: 7.30pm (took him upstairs and this time tried shh/pat - fell asleep in my arms though - if I put him in his crib before he started crying.
Looking at the past couple of days it looks like he is very sleep in the morning with little activity - it is hard to keep him awake in the mornings - early afternoon. Then he seems to have a long period of being awake from 3.30 ish to about 8pm - very difficult to get him down to nap at these times.
I am wondering if I should work on getting the timing of his day better - more activity spread out. And then when that is sorted work on getting him to fall asleep independently - I am wondering if I am trying to put to much pressure on myself getting it all sorted at once?
How can I work out getting his naps spread out?