I need more coffee - I was thinking your second bottle was in the morning - sorry!!
Would it fit with your routine to do breakfast a little earlier and lunch where you offered a morning snack? I would think he wasn't hungry after lunch at 1.30 which was why he wasn't interested in fruit in the afternoon. Would it work to do
7am Wake
7.20 bottle
8.15/30 breakfast
12/12.30 lunch (before nap)
Between wake up and dinner - milk/ snack
He may not need 2 snacks, my DS has never really needed snacks and if he did meals suffered so we only gave/give them if he asks.
How much milk is he taking? From around 1 year they really only need 12oz + solids.
Laura