My 8 month old is constantly over tired. She has been a mess for a while now and I feel I need something to break this vicious circle. She went from taking a decent morning and afternoon nap (+ catnap) to 30 min max for each. She has had a problem with waking early since she was 4 months old. She is so good she just lies awake in her cot, making it very difficult to monitor her night time wakings. She only really cries out when she can't put herself back to sleep because she is just too tired.
Typical day
7pm bed (varies by 20 minutes each side)
wake between 4 and 5:30 - (I think?
) She does nap but until 7, but erratically
7am -Milk/breakfast
8.00-9.00 - 30 minute nap (sometimes she can out herself back to sleep for a while)
11:45 lunch (but more often than not too tired for this and just goes back to sleep with milk)
12:30/1:00 20-30 minute nap in crib. Sometimes could be convinced to sleep another 20-30 minutes
2:00 Milk
3pm cranky,
4pm cranky, sleeping for 20 minutes (cries when I put her down at this time of day)
5:00dinner (getting difficult to give this as too tired)
6-6:30 bath, milk
7pm-ish bed. (have tried moving this earlier due to over tired baby)
Since she is so tired all the time, she can't get any good rest, no matter what I do. I have tried driving her through naps (maybe could get 35 - 40 minutes of sleep)
I don't know what time I would even try wake to sleep, since her wake-ups are in the same time frame but not exact and she lies awake quietly so we often don't hear her. She is always extremely tired by 6 or 6:30am and by the time she wakes up she is already overtired.
I know I need to alter her schedule but I don't know how. Watching for signs of tiredness is useless because she is ALWAYS tired. This is now effecting her eating too.
I'm so confused and sure I'm just making things worse. Please help my sad baby!