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hunger or habitual waking?
« on: March 12, 2010, 09:00:12 am »
Hiya,
 DS is 17 weeks today, ebf and I've been trying to increase the number of hours he sleeps at night. My strategy is:
- clusterfeed - at 6pm and 8pm
- DF
- and when he wakes up try to pat/shush first until he no longer falls asleep
I've managed to get him to sleep 5 hour stretches - from around 11pm to 4am

Yesterday I done the DF a bit earlier, 10.20/10.30pm and he then woke up at around 3.15am. I done pat/shush and he fell asleep again only until 3.45am when he wouldn't settle again and started sucking his hands. I thought: 'ok, it's been just over 5 hours so it must be hunger' but when I went to feed him he only took 5 min on one breast (he would usually take around 7/8 on the first and 5/6 on the second) and fell asleep like a rock, no chance of getting him to finish his feed. My breasts were very full so I thought that maybe he did take the same amount but just in shorter time.
But then he woke up again at 6.15am, clearly hungry and took a full feed.

Questions:
1- do you think that other wakening (3.45am) might have not been hunger?
2- If not what should I have done? PU/PD? Even if pat/shush always worked before?
3-Any other suggestions most welcomed!!!!



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Re: hunger or habitual waking?
« Reply #1 on: March 15, 2010, 00:45:02 am »
bumping this up for you . . .

Not totally sure about answers, but the fact that he settled, then woke again shortly makes me think he was hungry at 3:45.  The tricky thing is that there are some powerful sleep-inducing chemicals in breast milk, so those may have overcome him before he was done feeding.  It's tough in the middle of the night as you don't want to do too much to wake them to try to get in a full feed, yet multiple mini-feeds seems silly too. 

Hoping others have better ideas for you. :)

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Re: hunger or habitual waking?
« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2010, 10:28:19 am »
Thanks. I'm starting to think it was hunger because he did wake up last night and fell back asleep (with a bit of patting) - so I'm assuming if he didn't fall back asleep before it was cause something needed sorted: Hunger!