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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #15 on: March 16, 2010, 12:54:38 pm »
He woke screaming after 1 hour  :( :( :(

So Awake at 6.30am
sleep - 11.45-12.45

Any thoughts on what I do with him now?!

Thanks

xx

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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #16 on: March 16, 2010, 13:03:18 pm »
6pm bedtime? i doubt you will get another nap in today? so an early bedtime is probably the  only option x

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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #17 on: March 16, 2010, 13:10:08 pm »
I was going to say catnap myself - depends on your LO.  If mine woke at 12:45, I would be able to get him to have 20 mins in the buggy around 4:30 probably.   But if yours is a 12 hour kind of night guy, then a 6:00 pm bedtime could work well.

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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #18 on: March 16, 2010, 13:12:01 pm »
6pm bedtime? i doubt you will get another nap in today? so an early bedtime is probably the  only option x

Thank you  :)

Yes, definately an early bedtime - only issue is that I normally give a 6pm bedtime when he wakes early from his second nap at 2pm!  So just wondering, how early to go?!  He looked SO tired when I put him down for his nap today - I can't imagine being able to stretch him out much more than 4 hours - giving a 4.45pm bedtime  :o??

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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #19 on: March 16, 2010, 14:44:26 pm »
If it were me I'd do bed asleep for 6pm.  He had 12.5hrs last night and a 1hr nap so 13.5hrs total.  I wonder if you should bring his nap forward by 15mins or so to break him in a bit more gently and maybe he'll sleep longer??  :-\
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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #20 on: March 16, 2010, 15:01:24 pm »
Hey Claire, just tagging along too as I wrote a very similar post last week, DD is nearly 18m and still not regularly on one nap, mostly due to irratic nights, sometimes only 10.5 hours with NWs.
This week what has worked quite well for us is one 1 hour 45 min nap (if you can get one that long, I know it's hard and to be honest the only way I can get DD to take such a long nap is in her buggy!!) and an earlier than normal bedtime. Then if I don't get such a long nap I have been trying to get a later catnap. For instance yesterday she did:

A 7am
S 11.15am-12.30pm (earlier than normal nap but we were out in the car)
S 4-4.15pm
S 7.30pm

A "normal" day for the past week might be more like:

A 7am
S 12-1.45pm
S 7.30pm

Of course this doesn't always pan out exactly but like you I thought I should just finally bite the bullet and push for one nap, with the odd 2 nap day to balance things out if she was getting OT.

HTH you in some way and good luck with the rest of today. DD is at MIL's today where she never naps properly so my new "routine" will be out the window no doubt! :)

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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #21 on: March 16, 2010, 15:30:56 pm »
I would do 6pm as well.

Just remember that they always do get a bit OT during the process of switching to 1 nap. I remember J looking so tired in the first few days, but once he got past that we did much better. I think it was just his body adjusting.

He probably needs to sart with alower A time to the nap - perhaps try 4.5hrs ish next time so that would give you an 11am nap. I know it sounds super early for a 1 nap day but II did that with Jacob for quite a while and he would sleep until 2pm.

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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #22 on: March 16, 2010, 18:43:00 pm »
Hugs Claire - we are here in the same boat hun and just waiting for a later than 6am start so we can do another one nap dayxxx




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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #23 on: March 16, 2010, 19:41:08 pm »
Thanks all  :-*

Well, after my post earlier about him waking after an hour, he ended up screaming for a few minutes, then went quiet so I just left him in his cot and he must have dropped off for another 20 minutes or so, as he was too quiet to have been awake!

So he was asleep at 5.45pm.....we shall see how tonight goes.  But, all in all, it felt ok.  He was whacked before his nap, but actually was pretty happy for most of the day, and I was surprised how well he seemed to manage.  So feel good that it is time to switch. 

He'll be having a two nap day tomorrow (with my Mum) so that should help him out too
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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #24 on: March 16, 2010, 21:38:10 pm »
Fingers crosssed for a good night.

Xx
LAURA xx




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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #25 on: March 17, 2010, 07:54:19 am »
5.45pm-6.15am  :)

So, I'm going to be home today rather than my Mum having him, and just wondering whether I would be better giving him one nap, or give him a two nap day like I had originally planned??

Thanks xx
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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #26 on: March 17, 2010, 08:57:46 am »
wow - what a good night! As he has had a good night I would try for one again x




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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #27 on: March 17, 2010, 13:45:49 pm »
Glad Becky replied early!!  I would've said one nap too.

Great night, hope he naps well too.
LAURA xx




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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #28 on: March 17, 2010, 16:20:42 pm »
So today was:

6.15am wake
11.20-1pm nap....

5.30pm bedtime??!

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Re: Is it *finally* time for him to move to one nap?! (16.5 months)
« Reply #29 on: March 17, 2010, 18:01:34 pm »
i wouldnt do earlier than 6pm but thats just me!!