Hi Shiv52,
Thanks for the lengthy reply. I too read the "is my baby ready to increase his A time" but he shows all the tired signs sometimes just short of the 2 hour mark. And it seemed like when I tried to extend the A he got OT. He generally is getting about 11.5 or 12 hours sleep during the night though, and I try really hard to have him nap a total of at least 3 hours in the day.
I'll answer the Qs in the order you posed them:
1. We aim to start our day around 7 or 7:30am. Ethan used to be awesome, he'd wake at 7:30 plus or minus 15min. Our bedtime routine starts around 6:30 or so and he
used to be in bed and asleep by 7pm or shortly after.
2. Lately I've tried feeding in a dark room (bust). It seems like he'll eat ok right after the nap (and I mean right after, I can't let him wake up too much or he's too active, so its hard when he only naps 45min and I wait it out to see if he'll go back to sleep, or try to get him back to sleep (I don't think this has ever worked). I can't have any TV or music on, no one else can be in the room, and I can't talk, or he gets way too distracted. And what's frustrating is I know he's hungry, but he's whipping his head around looking at everything. I've tried using toys, singing, not looking at him. Sigh.
3. Tried faster teats several times..he's still on the first ones (newborn)! He ends up sputtering and not drinking much, so I go back to old faithful to try to get him to eat. I don't know if I should try for a whole day or not. I also read something that claimed different nipple sizes was bogus, since the boob never changes like that. I get myself so confused the more I read!
4. Nope, I usually feed solids after the milk, because I am trying to go the 4 hours between E times. The thought was that he would eat more at a setting. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
5. My LO is exactly 26 weeks today. And instead of celebrating, I find myself regretting ever having him, which even as I type that it makes me cry. I worry he will catch on that I am frustrated with him, and he'll hate me for that and also for forcing him to nap. I hate to hear him cry.
6. I haven't really tried to extend naps with any method, I am too worried about the OT monster, which is a hysterical, red-faced, dry heaving one that scares the crap out of me.
7. He's had signs of teething for months, but no teeth. I don't know where those guys are.
to continue the EASY from today, he went down at 4:05pm quite easy (but wanted to suck my finger so I let him), and woke at 4:40. Then we went to a pub with a visiting colleague of my husbands, and Ethan started getting fussy but had only been up for an hour and a half. I took him home, did the bedtime routine, fed him at 7:15 and he was almost asleep a few times but then started the hysterics again. I never let it get far, I walked around with him, let him sit in my lap since he didn't want to lay down. He'd be content for about 5-10 min,but then start bucking and crying and rubbing his eyes. But didn't want to lay down. This went on a few times, until finally I gave him about an oz more of formula (was trying the entire time) and he finally fell asleep sucking. It was now 8pm.
Sorry this was so long.