And can I get an "Amen" to every word of that, Deb!!!
I texted a nutritionist friend of mine...she says that your lo should be getting around 40 calories per day for very inch of her height. So if she is 30 inches, then that is roughly 1200 calories. She did say that if you were around 1000, that wouldn't be so far off that you'd need to stress.
I googled also, and this seems to be right.
She also said that anything less than 16 ounces of fluids per day is not ok, with 24 oz being what you want to shoot for ideally. So if you could get your dd to have an 8 oz bottle in the morn, then another before bed, then whatever she drank during the day with dcp would be even better.
Don't ask, just TELL them that dd is not getting enough fluids. If you want to deal with it by doing the morn and night bottle at home, then great....but really, they are not the boss here. YOU ARE THE BOSS. THEY WORK FOR YOU. That is so hard to remember isn't it? I used to be so intimidated by my OB/Gyn, then one day my dh was like "We can fire her, you know! She WORKS for US!!" I hadn't thought of it like that.
Don't cry, sweetie. Or if you do, make it a quickie, then let us know what we can do to help you have a chat with this lady. I'll write you a script, even! You don't have to be nasty/mean/confrontational in order to TELL her what you need to happen.