Hi there,
This is a long post - sorry but bear with me.
My 10mo is really difficult to feed. Basically he is getting very bored in the high chair and throws everything!
The ONLY way i get this little rascal to eat is use distraction, the problem is I'm running out of new toys! I use boxes, pasta packets, cooking utensils, you name it i have given it too him.
I just don't look forward to meal times - it's such a struggle.
When i first put him in his chair he is fine, he will eat a small amount of finger food then throw it away. So I continue to spoon feed - he hits the spoon or shakes his head 'no'. If i offer a new toy or something else to entertain him with he opens his mouth for food and quite happily eats it. He keeps opening his mouth for more too.
The problem is getting bigger as now he throws everything i give him on the floor so i have nothing to distract him with.
Even when i tie the toy or object it to his table and re-offer he is fine for a few minuted then starts to fuss and squirm and shake his head, so again i go to the pantry get a new box of 'something' and the whole thing starts all over again! It's a headache!
Now i cannot tell if he is hungry or not? Is he only eating because he's distracted? or is he hungry and bored?
He's doing the same with bottles, the first bottle he will drink 180ml-240mils then once he's done he hits the bottle.
To give you an idea of what he is eating here is what his day looks like_
7am wake
7.30am Bottle 180-240mils
8.15/8.30am Breakfast 1/2 wheetbix 1small mashed banana 60mils milk added - few bites of wholemeal toast with cheese spread.
9.30-snack offered 1-2 mum mums sips of bottle water
12.30-1pm bottle offered until 3weeks ago he drank 140 to 180mils now usually hits the bottle and doesn't drink anything, water is offered he has a few sips.
1.30 Lunch 140grams of meat and veggies home made baby food, 5/6tablespoons yogurt, 2 green beans 4 pasta spirals
3pm snack offered mum mum - usually refuses but will sip water
5/5.30dinner (same as lunch - finger food can be alternated with different veggies)
7.30pm Bottle offered - usually refuses and hits it but will drink 180mils or so of water in a bottle.
It apperas he is a good 'solid' eater (if distracted) not so good at milk ATM - I've tried a few different times to offer milk but he just refuses.
Don't know if i should keep this up with the distraction?
Or do i take the fussing as no?
If so why does he eat when distracted?
I've tried singing, clapping and being very OTT happy at meal time and nothing, distraction is the only way! HE is very clingy ATM too-which is very unlike him. He's not crawling yet but showing definite signs and whinges A LOT!
I feel like i just don't know what to do anymore, i'm only persistant in feeding him because he's my baby and i love him, but sometimes i feel like just giving up and taking him out of his chair-but i don't.
Also would any one drop a meat and veg and change it for wheetbix as i can add milk? I know milk is so posed to be more important than solids, but then again he is only 6weeks form 1!
Ay ya yay! I don't know!!!
I started using distraction at around 7months as other mums and websites and baby food books suggested is a good idea when he started to get bored...Now it's like and eating prop! I've APOP'ed haven't i??? It was never this bad in the past though some feeds we wouldn't need it at all, but the 3weeks have been a nightmare!
HELP!
He's in size 1 clothes, 11kg's 95th and 75th percentile.