Not sure if this is the right place for please move if necessary!

Well, I'm don't think F hates the carseat so much as he hates car rides, but either way it's making getting out a nightmare! At first I thought it was the seat, but actually he's ok when I put him in, and is usually fine in there when I transfer it to the stroller or a shopping cart. It just once we start driving he goes bonkers, screams until he's purple and hoarse.

Sometimes he's not as bad, only crying part of the way or not too much, but most of the time it's a nightmare. Very stressful!
Now, he hated baths and diaper changes initially and grew out of that, so I'm hoping hoping hoping he grows out of this too. I can't imagine him doing this for months and months still!
Experiences?